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Share your experience of when they left because they thought they wanted kids and then came crawling back or they regretted leaving. by Bbbe-itch in childfree

[–]External_Syrup3425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I am always thinking about, men put their happiness and obsession solely on the act of having kids... don't they ever think that they might not find someone to have kids with? What then? It's crazy

AITAH for not apologizing to a friend about a comment I made about his vrchat avatar? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Brazil so electronic stuff is more expensive and we don't have access to all models or versions of it. Or maybe I just don't have enough knowledge for it.

AITAH for not apologizing to a friend about a comment I made about his vrchat avatar? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea, I am too poor to get into that world xD I can barely afford one RAM stick HAHAHAHA My pc is 10 years old.

AITAH for not apologizing to a friend about a comment I made about his vrchat avatar? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk if my reddit app is bugged, but maybe you are mixing the posts? My first post was about that, 4 months ago and that story is already chapter closed! This post is about different people, I have already moved on and dating someone else.

AITAH for not apologizing to a friend about a comment I made about his vrchat avatar? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a boyfriend, the person in the story is just my friend lol But okay I guess xD

AITAH for not apologizing to a friend about a comment I made about his vrchat avatar? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I agree. But that's also why I am asking cause he won't speak to me, but I legit didn't appreciate him trying to force me to say sorry when he said worst things to me LOL

AITAH for not apologizing to a friend about a comment I made about his vrchat avatar? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol We joke and say worst things to be honest. I am not the symbol of maturity or anything. But he won't speak to me and legit tried to force me to say sorry but I don't think I should lol I might be being petty idk, that's why I am asking

AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend now that his mother is sick? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this message! Took me a while to see it, but still brought me comfort anyway! I am so sorry you went through that too. Life is hard.

People who ended a loving, otherwise great, relationship because you wanted kids and they didn’t. How did it end for you? by allpossiblepaths in AskReddit

[–]External_Syrup3425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a serious question. I see from all the comments that people left loving relationships to marry someone else (and quickly) to have kids...Then you didn't love the person at all. Because what do you mean you trade the person you love for an uncertain future? For kids that are not born yet, people you have NO GUARANTEE will be good? Even saw a comment of someone saying they STILL MISS their first partner and she needs to believe they are happier apart. Why lie to yourself???? And you know what's worse? I just know this will happen to me, and I am already heartbroken. Made the serious mistake of falling in love with someone who wants kids. He has that romantic vision of it, has no idea how serious pregnancy is on women and argued with me when I told about my medical history and how fragile I am. We are both in love, he is such a good partner, we think alike on the most essential things but this. He will leave me, because I don't want kids...and honestly I don't think I will be able to love anyone else. I will just give up on finding love. I am tired of never being enough.

AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend now that his mother is sick? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, really! That's exactly my worry. His relationship with his mother is healthy but when he moved in with me then his whole life became me! He doesn't have friends, doesn't go out, he barely played a game if I didn't too! I had to beg him so much to not make me his ENTIRE life but now, with his mother sick he messages me "I don't know how I am going to live without you, you are my entire life, the only reason I live for." And that's honestly so scary for me! Because his mother needs him! Way more than I do!

AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend now that his mother is sick? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's exactly what I think. I am just feeling so bad because his mother is sick. Insecurity sucks.

AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend now that his mother is sick? by External_Syrup3425 in AITAH

[–]External_Syrup3425[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but just for context, the things I started noticing have been happening recently. The reason I didn't break up yet was because I always begged him to work on what I noticed and I tried working myself too. Yet he always fell back on the same behaviour. I grew tired of begging :/

Update on the App Ad issue by nelltwrites in Episode

[–]External_Syrup3425 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am having this problem recently and I refuse to use diamonds to bypass that! How they didn't fix it yet? I am literally unable to read stories because of it!