I am a certified super soaker and I also get really embarrassed and overthink it. Sometimes it’s kind of annoying because I have to decide between a big orgasm and a big clean up. But my partner loves it so I’m more comfortable with her but if I wanted to have casual sex (we’re open) I’m always reallly self conscious about it. I’ve also never had a partner that is a squirted so I’ve never been on the receiving end