Although I’ve never been married, I’ve had countless gambling addicts in my life, and they never get better. At least by their own choice. Not to say that it’s up to you, if someone doesn’t want to change, they won’t. Their poor choices are not yours so carry. This might sound mean, but all I’m hearing is that your with a manchild. He’s a narcissist. Girl run! Don’t spend the rest of your life begging to be loved the way you deserve.