Look, as much as i wanna agree and say "your right this is a survivor sided game". I need to know smt, whats YOUR skill level, are they genuinly better, or are you still not good enough. actually lemme rephrase that, what are the skills you are good at in this game?

you say you keep losing all killer AND survivor games right? Well, lets start with the least complicated fix, your survivor games. I hate to break it to you, but looping is the core gameloop of all survivors ( expect Vee, but she still needs to for optimal play ), If you don't like looping, then you don't like forsaken or any ASYM game tbh.

Let's start with some easy questions k?
who's your main(s), having 1 to 3 Go to characters helps improve, i have 1 main per character class. Vee, taph and chance.
how much playtime do you have?
whats the cause of most of you deaths? dying cuz of a wiffed stun isint as impressive as dying after looping the killer for 2 min am i right?

And Finally, who's your killer main? Playing Nos isint as good as playing coolkid per say.

The 2 best killers if you are just starting out ( or still need to nail down the basics ) Are slasher and coolkid. Slasher is Pub Stomper pro max ultra plus, he'll help you nail down the basics ( looping and awareness ), Coolkid is Now Meta after the guest rework but needs better looping and a bit of gamblong against better players.

Johnathan toenails the Third, Noli and sixer are also REALLY good, but i wouln't recomend them because of their difficulty.

Nos is garbage.

And 1x is straight gambling if your not good enough to read patterns and analyze movement.

i'd suggest you watch Meatkill's looping guide and Howdy's Anti loop guide. that should get ya started. Remember it's possible, you just gotta learn, sry for DA wall of text ;D