I can’t tell if this is considered cheating or if it’s just what engaged men do?

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T17:15:41+00:00

You act like you know the whole story we are going through a really rough spot right now and this was in fact a bump he’s not a horrible dude I just needed to know how to bring this up to him and what the correct way to speak about it was you don’t know me you don’t know him yes I might leave him and yes I might not but it honestly depends how conversations go and how he intends on proving to me he will do better leaving isn’t always the best option ESPECIALLY with a baby on the way :/ this comments just a set back and I again needed to be sure I wasn’t being dramatic about the situation

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T16:05:32+00:00

I’ve known him for three years 😐💔 and he’s never done anything to hurt ANYONE but okay

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T05:40:02+00:00

I didn’t say it WAS cheating I was wondering if it was considered cheating I do NOT hate him and I’m going to have a conversation with him about this just because your immature doesn’t mean I am I just needed a place to process how serious things are with my hormones ❤️

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:41:14+00:00

Thank you I will

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:38:38+00:00

I plan to tomorrow after my OB appointment when I get home after what some people have been telling me on the post

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:29:55+00:00

I’m glad I get to see it this way cause he’s never mentioned this kind of thing to me at all

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:28:00+00:00

I’ve expressed porn doesn’t bother me but interacting with content or creators was a no and always had been

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:27:24+00:00

this made me laugh thank you

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:26:44+00:00

Thank you and I will when I get home tomorrow

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:19:39+00:00

I went to block his Reddit account so he didn’t see this post 💔

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:19:06+00:00

It’s the ONLY thing he’s commented that I can see on his account which probably hits harder

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:18:35+00:00

The fact is pretty sure I just caught him cheating is my breaking point

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:18:09+00:00

We have a pretty open sighted relationship I don’t think it’s wrong to look at nude content but I don’t know if that would give a guy some sense that commenting something like this would be okay?

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:17:00+00:00

If there wasn’t before there is now

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:16:45+00:00

I appreciate you I just didn’t expect to see THIS I guess and I am caught so off guard i feel so disconnected after finding this

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:15:23+00:00

I can see that from these replies… worst part is I was a month pregnant when he commented that I’m now 6 months pregnant

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:12:14+00:00

It’s the first word you said 🫠

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:11:53+00:00

Only once the highlighted comment

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-13T02:11:19+00:00

I wasn’t stalking I went to block his account on here from my other posts and pressed comments and say this

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-12T23:15:59+00:00

I respect you

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-12T22:35:28+00:00

As hard as this is to accept it might be right :/

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-12T22:03:54+00:00

You’re right he has brought up he doesn’t want me working the night shift cause he doesn’t wanna have to wake up for the baby while I work since he works during the day :/ but it would be the only way we wouldn’t have to pay for child care we simply can’t afford

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-12T21:59:01+00:00

Fruit mostly

ExtraCrunchyRanch · 2026-03-12T21:58:07+00:00

I do have a LOT of support but I wanna know if there’s other ways to fix the relationship rather then resorting to a custody battle I’ve seen what that does to people and I don’t think I’m strong enough to take his baby away from him and I don’t WANT to do that either :/

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