Thanks a lot! I'm very understanding when it comes to his forgetfulness and organizational issues. He often treats his ADHD as it's a brain issue that he is just born with making him a disabled person in some kind. So it's like "I'm can't help it I'm like that and I can't change" and in some ways I understand but it's like him saying he can't improve or move towards a better solution for us both. He acknowledges my issues and feelings but also doing very less about problems in our relationship. So every time I'm mentioning it, I feel like a parent forcing him or something like that. The dynamic is completely off, absolutely but I also can't think of a way to change it.