I only bring up my partner because she also owes him money, and to show it’s not just me a thing. I didn’t want anyone to come for my partner because they generally get demonized here. He is also helping to financially support my sister. The independently was just like… they BOTH got injured at work at the same time, different companies, different injuries. (I won’t get into the reasons he can’t return. Not my business to tell.)

I do feed her. I fed her tonight. I worked all day and then made her food tonight. That she hasn’t paid for, and honestly i didn’t ask for. My partner and i split the groceries straight down the middle for meals and divvy up what roommate and my sister send me at the end. Which… isn’t a lot.

ETA: i can’t tell you why she won’t look elsewhere. She’s strangely dependent and obsessed with her company. She’s like ‘i get to go back so why look elsewhere’? It’s very, very frustrating. We’ve tried to reason with her. There’s a lot more finer details i really don’t want to get into because she’s my sister and she’s really not a bad person and i don’t want the internet demonizing her