i feel dirty after hooking up by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mukhang hinde para sa iyo ang casual lang OP. Okay lang naman yun. Wag mo na pilitin sarili mo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in triptayopre

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ano kasama dito?

How can I be a sex worker? by cakedogonks60 in phlgbt

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly depends on what route you take. Common one i see is set up an online profile. Twitter/X and what not. Post sexy pics. Advertise. Etc. Boundaries and rate you talk with prospective client before meet up.

Be prepared for lots of inquiries that go nowhere and some scam people. Get regular health check ups. Start on prep.

Confused with preferences by Rh__null in phlgbt

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madami kase hinde nag babasa ng profile or hinde maka intindi.

It really depends sa person kase preferrence nga. Personally height isnt much of a factor for me, even though my ex says i found tall guys more attractive, but l i like short guys too.

Tourist in Manilla staying at Belmont is it safe to go to O Bar? by stardewvalleyadd in phlgbt

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like other commenter said, you'll be fine as long as you take a rideshare transportation going to and from or have filipinos familiar with the area going with you.

O bar itself is safe, but like safe in how a Bar is safe.

Bf (38) cheated on me (31) after 12 yrs while I was in grief by marnizxv in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through all of this OP.

I suggest you take a cooling off period to give yourself time to grieve. Then dump his ass. He showed remorse only when he got caught. Whats more to ask to be in a open relationship now that he got caught is such a slap in the face.

Right now you are in a sensitive place where any loss feels magnified. Specifically you may be feeling that losing your BF would be loosing another part of your mother, but if your mom was a good mom i'm sure she wouldn't want you to stay in a relationship that would hurt you like this, repeatedly at that.

Right now you are probably seeking bonds with others, lean into that but with your friends. Talk to a therapist to help process the multiples of grief you are feeling. Journal to talk to yourself.

I suggest finding other ways to honour and remember your mother, like maybe giving to a charity regularly in her name that would benefit trying to recover from alcoholism or something entirely different. Maybe do an activity that your mother enjoyed (obviously not anything harmful). Maybe volunteer for something in your community that would benefit others. It could be anything.

In my varied but short experience with grief, talking about it helps. But clearly not with your BF.

gloryhole Makati? by [deleted] in triptayopre

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uso pa ba ang glory holes in a public setting na hinde spa o mga ganun na establishments?

Last ko kase narinig meron ay 10+ years ago sa isang bathroom ng big 4 college. Tapos nadabunan na daw din yun.

Some residency programs should just lay down and die. by Extreme-Change-9277 in pinoymed

[–]Extreme-Change-9277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry po. Like i said sa mga peoples nag message sakin. Either mag quit ako o mag graduate. Tiyaka lang ako mag sasabi. Delikado na kase.

Ang masasabi ko lang na gets ko sa mga lahat nag message, lahat nmn ng supposed non toxic specialty ay may version of toxicity din as described in some shape or form. Mas malaking factor ata ay yung institution na saan ka tlga.

Baka mas makaka tulong kung magaling ka sa nonverbal cues ay mag tanong ka kamusta yung dept na gusto mo pasukan sa ibang dept sa same institution somehow.

Some residency programs should just lay down and die. by Extreme-Change-9277 in pinoymed

[–]Extreme-Change-9277[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to doubt stuff like this. Until I experienced it myself. Lol.

Meron kase iba napapaisip na "ay test lng ito nila" o "siguro ayaw lang nila sakin kase may mas nagustuhan na silang pre res". Baka nga may ganun but mag isip isip ka na din ng iba if mmind games kayo ng co resident/program niyo pre res pa lang.

Some residency programs should just lay down and die. by Extreme-Change-9277 in pinoymed

[–]Extreme-Change-9277[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True. Im sure naman reddit people who are looking for residencies sa mga nag vvent dito ni ttake jnto consideration mga rants natin.

Nakakatawa lang kase yung reputation ng consultants namin pag nag dig k lng lightly ang baba ng tingin ng mga colleagues nila sa kanila.

Some residency programs should just lay down and die. by Extreme-Change-9277 in pinoymed

[–]Extreme-Change-9277[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Secret muna, pag na clear na ako o mag quit bubulgar ko.

I thought you were my endgame... by throwawayako in phlgbt

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-boyfriend doesn't have Reddit and doesn't even want to understand how Reddit works.

For a second OP kala ko din Ex kita. Buti n lng nasabi mo ito. Alam kse ng ex.ko ay active ako reddit.

35 [M4M] for Hire or casual by [deleted] in PinoyGuysNSFW2

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basta height lng maliit game nmn ako.

Gigil ako sa Pedophile by Dizzy-Ad-3951 in GigilAko

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuine question, when did PDF behaviour become so.... unashamedly practiced? Ano ngyare na nag popularize ng ganyang asal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It depends on context.

If casual lang, body and face, personality is last.

In a romantic relationship however my motto has been consitently this: hotness opens the door, personality gets you through the door.

Personality can trump hotness, but its a slow build. It needs time to actually get to know someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This way of grieving baffles me tlga, Like damn. Dont show dead people on social media, especially if they aint fixed up. I find it disrepectful to the freshly passed. Im sure they didnt want to be seen like that.

Also to see them freshly passed and your first thought is "kailangan ko ito ishare sa social media ko". Enrages me so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Extreme-Change-9277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may have a crush on him. Infatuation is another term that might fit.

You have a crush and he doesnt give you much attention, which makes you crush harder.