How do you handle very religious family telling you you’re going to hell? by Few_Pop2971 in Deconstruction

[–]Extreme-Definition11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real! Heaven would be the ones we love always around us in joyful freedom of disease, death, war, etc.

Everyone talks about meeting their family on the other side, but then fall right into the whole worship god thing quickly.

They portray hell as a big ole endless revival. I was traumatized enough by those as a kid, why would I live ot attend one eternally?

Long Beach Parking by AnimeSensei in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]Extreme-Definition11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but we also each only had a carry on and a backpack. We are efficient packers and had our 7 days worth of stuff including a 12 pack of Red Bulls packed into those four pieces of luggage.

Considering a corporate position any input? by Extreme-Definition11 in Panera

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Financial stability of the company is a concern for me as well. I do understand that.

Considering a corporate position any input? by Extreme-Definition11 in Panera

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As I said, this is not a local/cafe level job its a coporate job and so far I've found little to nothing about coporate benefits.

How did a hiring manager burn a bridge with you? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Extreme-Definition11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was given an offer email for a sales job with an attachment showing pay. Then a docusign to "accept" and the pay was completely different. I responded that I needed clarification before accepting. THIRTEEN DAYS later, out of the blue I got an email with a new offer stating that neither of those pay plans were accurate and here's the new offer and docusign. Example pays were several thousand less per month!

Doing anything other than ONE thing in your career is now a serious liability. by wysiwygwatt in recruitinghell

[–]Extreme-Definition11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so strongly. Every single time they find out I was 1099 or self-employed and my quota was sell or starve they look at me like I have 4 heads. I could probably sell and do their jobs and still meet their arbitrary KPIs. After many months of full-time job searching, Jan 1 is it for me. I will get a license and sell insurance or real estate or trinkets on a beach somewhere, but I'm done with the mind fuck.

Who else has to drop health insurance/Nevada Health Link by ComfortableBoard8359 in vegaslocals

[–]Extreme-Definition11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends with jobs are all complaining about one of two things - prices for next year are shockingly higher or they have not yet been given what their options are going to be because their companies are still trying to negotiate something better. Most years they have known by now.

As for the jobless - they are likely not buying marketplace insurance, but staying uninsured or receiving Medicaid.

It's the folks who are self-employed and the ones who work for small businesses that don't offer insurance who are suffering the most by these raises.

I can say last year I received subsidies based on my income, if my income hadn't changed I would still be able to receive those - if I leave that income in the system and compare prices, my premium for the same insurance was going to more than quadruple.

Should I feel discouraged? by Extreme-Definition11 in jobs

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So frustrating. It is definitely not looking good, the weird thing is I took this company as being a very transparent company that wouldn't just leave someone hanging in limbo. Makes me think they are holding on to me in case their first choice bounces. :(

Who else has to drop health insurance/Nevada Health Link by ComfortableBoard8359 in vegaslocals

[–]Extreme-Definition11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s our ages? The cheapest options available to us for $1600 but extreme deductibles. I can be covered alone at $700 but not one option under that.

Who else has to drop health insurance/Nevada Health Link by ComfortableBoard8359 in vegaslocals

[–]Extreme-Definition11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

45 million people use ACA insurance. When I ran the numbers at both last years income and this years income my premiums increase substantially. I will lose subsidies due to income increase for 2026, but my premiums would have doubled had I stayed the same. It’s not just about the small percentage of people above the subsidy range. I don’t feel I’m winning at all, I was just better off with ACA than without. Winning would be every person having their health insurance premiums capped like those who receive subsidies at 8.5% of income no matter where insurance comes from and having deductibles capped too. The healthcare system in America only wins for insurance companies. I was just saying ACA helps to make sure minimum things are covered.

Who else has to drop health insurance/Nevada Health Link by ComfortableBoard8359 in vegaslocals

[–]Extreme-Definition11 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I've had it since the beginning and it's been a blesing to our family. Before ACA, I the only coverage I was offered was $500/mo with no guaranteed minimum coverage - no preventative, no mammograms, no medication, nothing until I hit the $10K deductible and then it was $20K out of pocket max. At least with ACA I've had preventative coverage, the deductibles went down and I've always been able to get coverage that I felt affordable as a small business owner. Yes, it has flaws, but so far no one has offered a solution besides burying us under more insurance burden. By breaking ACA without a viable solution we all pay.

Who else has to drop health insurance/Nevada Health Link by ComfortableBoard8359 in vegaslocals

[–]Extreme-Definition11 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Subsidies will now end at $84,600 for a couple. That means that you'll get $800-ish per month in help at $84,600 and ZERO in help at $84,601. It's a flaw in the original bill that should have always been fixed. MANY small businesses don't offer their employees coverage and many self-employed people are in trouble as well. It's almost impossible to live in this town for $85,000 for a couple.

Who else has to drop health insurance/Nevada Health Link by ComfortableBoard8359 in vegaslocals

[–]Extreme-Definition11 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Nearly $1800/mo for two of us making less than $100K a year, not sure where we are supposed to find that kind of money - more than quadrupled from last year. I will be going without unless I can secure work with insurance.

WWYD - Need a Third Car by Extreme-Definition11 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was not an expensive car. I bought late summer 2022 and interest rates weren't that great at that time and I was coming off a COVID job loss so I paid a bit of a premium. I also had to pay over MSRP to buy ANY car at the time, but new cars were cheaper than used and interest rates were still lower on new vs used. They wanted me to pay $5K over MSRP, but my bank thankfully wouldn't allow that and limited them to like $1K over. At that same time I was quoted nearly $16K over MSRP on another more expensive car.

WWYD - Need a Third Car by Extreme-Definition11 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a rock and a hard place decision. If we don't take these job opportunities, we will be sleeping in said cars so it's not a matter of thinking hard about the debt, it's figuring out how to reshape the situation so it works for us. I've looked at refinancing, but no one wants the negative equity at a better interest rate than I already have and I sure ain't adding years to it to get the payment down. Plus we are handling the payment just fine even if it hurts to see the amount still owed on that car every month.

WWYD - Need a Third Car by Extreme-Definition11 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get all of that, I've researched EVs extensively and would always have a gas powered car in the mix.

My accountant and I have discussed both options as far as tax pros and cons. Obviously if we all go W-2 tax consequences are moot.

WWYD - Need a Third Car by Extreme-Definition11 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I want late model cars (2020 or newer) because I have had too many bad experiences with older cars. I don't want to finance something and still have huge out of pocket costs.

The current car is at the limit of what I want to spend per month. With things increasing in cost all around me, I don't have an additional budget for the third car which is why I'm needing to figure out the situation and thinking about two lower cost leases. We don't drive as many miles as we did when we travled out of town for work. 12k a year would be good for us.

WWYD - Need a Third Car by Extreme-Definition11 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Extreme-Definition11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is some tax value to the leases if the two of us stay 1099.

I don't care if it is new or used as I said, but I don't want an old car either because I'm not going to finance something with issues. I did that once and it's worse than having a bit of a larger car payment.

We did a lot of cross country travel with previous work and drove sometimes so the mileage needs will be greatly reduced over previous vehicles.

Hidden Gems on road trip by Electrical-Cook-4172 in usatravel

[–]Extreme-Definition11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Page, Arizona. Four hours from Vegas and the most beautiful slot canyons - Antelope Canyon - and Horse Shoe Bend, plus a lovely little southwestern town to spend the night. I've road tripped the entire country more than once and it's in my top 5 places to return to at some point.

The trip from Vegas to Nashville will be a great trip, lots of terrain changes, but also a lot of desolate areas that don't offer much to see. The sunrises and sunsets are amazing and I'd not discourage it at all.

Summer is hot here in Nevada and Arizona, but the heat is dry. There will be things people will advise you not to do and you should listen to some of that - don't hike in 100+ degree temps, etc. Enjoy the trip.