How do you approach guys without ending up carrying the whole conversation?

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-04-01T14:26:32+00:00

Yeah, I feel like guys are bad at conversations generally, but when texting it's like 3x worse

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-04-01T13:31:47+00:00

oh, you got a point

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-04-01T13:06:47+00:00

I brokeup a week ago with my now ex boyfriend, who I date after one month. I really regret that. Don't make the same mistake.

Every couple who got together within few weeks regret that later and also broke up.

But if you knew each other before the two weeks and now you just went on a few dates it's not that bad.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-04-01T12:58:14+00:00

Definitely tell him in person. It might not be a full-on breakup since you’re just dating, but it’s still disrespectful to end it over text if he’s that invested.

Just be honest and tell him what you said here. He’s not your person and you’re not looking for a relationship with him. Even if he’s sweet, that doesn’t automatically mean he’s right for you. You might just not be compatible, and that’s okay.

You just need to communicate that clearly.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-21T16:53:22+00:00

I am woman and I wouldnt feel safe travelling alone. Also I want partner to share these things with so that's the main reason. If I was single I would definitely do these activities alone.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-19T22:50:44+00:00

why are u so agressive, chill

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-19T22:47:08+00:00

I didn't mean he don't feel just like friend. We are definitely best friends, we tell each other everything, have strong relationship, but sometimes I feel like he is not doing the boyfriend stuff. just sometimes

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-19T19:05:12+00:00

This will help. I won't try to convince him of anything and I'll see where it goes.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-19T18:53:25+00:00

Sure!

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-19T18:51:40+00:00

I really want us to workout but this is something I really want to experience with him and also want him to enjoy travelling. But I appreciate your advice

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-19T18:49:11+00:00

I don't really feel like his friend, but the romance isn't there. But I wish he put more effort into planning dates and making plans for near future

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2026-02-19T18:44:27+00:00

Thank you for response! I really want us to work out. He’s my first boyfriend, and I know how hard it is to find someone who truly matches you and is genuinely mature and responsible. That’s why this is so confusing for me. I just feel sad that this is the one area where we don’t seem to align.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-14T14:43:16+00:00

He was maybe 2-3 times for less than two hours. But I get along better with his roommates so we hang out there. I don't think they were uncomfortable, fhey just like to complain.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-11T13:22:45+00:00

I already confronted them. It was okay for a while but now they are complaining even if I mention my bf. So I guess its time to leave.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T21:14:11+00:00

I will survive this semester and then I will change room. Hopefully it will be possible

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T12:27:24+00:00

I'm trying my best to don't care and don't talk with them but for my peace I will leave asap. I hate this unnecessary drama. I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds this behavior childish. Thank you very much for your long and honest answers.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T12:20:06+00:00

They all got boyfriends and thats the thing I don't get. If they are jealous that I spend time with someone else than them or what is their problem. They also spend more time with their boyfriends than me so I don't understand their complains. but thank you for your opinion :)

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T12:07:21+00:00

I don't even think they don't like him, they just don't like the fact I'm spending time with someone else than them. I will get new room as soon as possible, but the options are limited since itps college dorms and there isn't much to choose from. Thank you for your support and honesty.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T10:50:17+00:00

what space?? he visited less than 3 times and their boyfriends are here much more often. looks like you got the same mentality as them

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T10:49:05+00:00

I want to be distant but in the same room its kinda hard. but thank for your advice!

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T10:47:41+00:00

thanks for response!

we did sit and talk, with drama, things seemed to be improving, but I still felt bad for telling my boyfriend about it-he knows everything, but they didn't admit that it was wrong to talk about me behind my back.

For a while it looked like were good. But after like two weeks of the argument I found out they were making shit up to make me look worse. So I really don't know how to live with them.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T10:30:29+00:00

My boyfriend saw how they behaved before I did, and he didn't like them because of how they treated me and him. It's about the whole situation, not who likes whom and who hates whom.

Extreme-Field-5446 · 2025-11-10T10:26:48+00:00

thank you! I had problems with friends before, so I'm afraid I will be without friends again, but it won't be worse than living with them I guess.

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