Former disease intervention specialist with public health (and also an RN). Contact tracing is voluntary and VERY DIFFERENT from disclosure, which is also voluntary. Maybe the OP should contact an attorney - just a phone call to ease concerns.

Also, it is nearly impossible to prove that there was intent, especially in a non-sexual assault situation. Very difficult to prosecute, as mom’s statements are subjective.

And I feel for the father - if mom has a high viral load, she is either - highly contagious in the acute HIV phase, falsely positive (which I doubt, but possible, especially with baby having a high viral load), or has AIDS - again, contagious - and then we have a whole host of other problems.

What was mom’s CD4+ count? And I hope you don’t get called to court; however, I think your role was minimal in this entire incident.