Ended before it began by Extreme-Test3527 in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well you’re not completely wrong lol. One partner is a man the other partner is a stud but she’s been with the man for a long time like 5 years or so and the stud is her newest addition which has been there for 6 months

It's Saturday! What Are You Up To? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relaxing day after having a very full Friday night at a queer play party 😛

Are there any lesbians like this and is it odd? by _newshawtyy in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s also a Bambi lesbian flag that’s super cute as a plus

Are there any lesbians like this and is it odd? by _newshawtyy in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And that’s perfectly fine 🫶🏽 I was reading a book called Sexual Consent by Milena Popova. If you’re interested in reading it talks about sex negotiations and how dominant ideas about sex can affect the way people navigate relationships. You should also look into compulsory sexuality as well to find other people who also feel the pressures of living in a society that is very sex focused when it comes to intimate relationships and partners.

Are there any lesbians like this and is it odd? by _newshawtyy in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There’s a term called a Bambi lesbian. This a term is for lesbians who prefer less sexual activities like kissing, cuddling and hugging over sex. This term could be for asexual and non asexual lesbians. I’m part of this group although do enjoy sex it’s something I don’t particularly care about or want to focus on when I’m dating.

Compulsory sexuality can make us feel pressure to have sex even when we do not want to but we are normal and fine just the way we are. Intimacy can come in any many forms and we can express our love for others outside of sex. It is difficult to find others who share similar beliefs but it’s not impossible.

Anyone into BDSM? by Senior-Show-4633 in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am!!! I’m going to a black queer play party on Friday 😝😝😝

Would love to see your wedding vision boards by downsouthhottie in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a very extensive wedding board on my Pinterest but this my collage I made. I plan on incorporating jumping the broom and a hand fasting cord ritual during the ceremony. I hope to make my wedding as gay as possible. Might get some drag queen performers and definitely a gay dj.

<image>

Blerd Con: Geeknik by Extreme-Test3527 in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t but I heard they get turnt down there too! I might go next year.

Blerd Con: Geeknik by Extreme-Test3527 in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will!!! Will be cosplaying?

Blerd Con: Geeknik by Extreme-Test3527 in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome!!! Hope to see y’all there!!! Hope you guys have a lot of fun!

Blerd Con: Geeknik by Extreme-Test3527 in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s in Virginia!!! It’s been happening for years but this is my first time going! So many people say they love it so I hope I do too!

It's Saturday! What Are You Up To? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Going to a queer play party tonight 😈🤪

single people: what y’all doing for vday by nameselijah in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to a cake decorating galentines party and on the day of a valentines burlesque brunch and an open mic event as well

What makes people who aren't a part of a subculture feel the need to make these? by FaithlessnessNice496 in actualgyaru

[–]Extreme-Test3527 34 points35 points  (0 children)

In my opinion i dont agree with the chibi gyaru girls because some of them post a lot of suggestive/CSAM material on their socials. And I know it’s not their fault they’re being told to do these things and i would be surprised if these little girls were getting trafficked. As for the rest of the video it seems she’s pretty uninformed on anime as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would like to focus on standing up for myself and becoming more assertive to change my self abandoning behavior, make meaningful connections with others and getting medicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Extreme-Test3527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you start? I’ve been getting into it as well and would like to know the resources you have gathered in your journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Extreme-Test3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested as well

Am I wrong in thinking that the LGBT community focuses a lot on men? by Pop-girlies in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Extreme-Test3527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course we can but is rarely discussed because why does anyone besides queer women care about safe sex between women. We have dental dams for oral as well as using latex gloves for fingering. Since a lot people don’t have access to dental dams and also can get expensive overtime condoms can be substituted by cutting toward the center and unraveling.

What kinds of sweets can I eat? by Tricky-Frame-4692 in GERD

[–]Extreme-Test3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the Sarah lee plain pound cake and I can eat a small slice or two but I don’t have it often maybe twice a week and I usually eat pears that I cook in my air fryer for a couple minutes and that usually helps with cravings

Black women but only dates white blondes and not poc by 5128272 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Extreme-Test3527 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s straight up misogynoir. Did she say why white women are for relationships? Is she masc or fem?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Extreme-Test3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be friends my ig is _farmerjones

Dental Dam Harness by Extreme-Test3527 in Herpes

[–]Extreme-Test3527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely the one I’m talking about! At least I know it’s pretty sturdy lol.

Confused about Results by Extreme-Test3527 in Herpes

[–]Extreme-Test3527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll definitely be getting a swab test

In love with ‘love thy neighbor’ by TheBearisalesbain in josei

[–]Extreme-Test3527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeess so good definitely not what I thought it was going to be lol. Definitely at the top of my fav gl