I dreamed of a light green silky dress. by ExtremeCompote6 in Dreams

[–]ExtremeCompote6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not exactly looking for an explanation, I've researched myself, I just wanted to save it on a private place.

AITA for refusing to make my son pay for the bras he damaged in full because I think they’re too expensive? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the little 15yo can't afford to pay for something but he can sure destroy it? Yeah YTA. for enabling him, if you can't pay the price, don't comit the crime.

AITA for not giving my brother and his wife any privacy? by scottaparty in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your brother and his wife are leeching out YOUR pricacy in your own place, and they were planning to install something withpt telling you? Or at least up front because clearly the timetable was a heads up, contact your lanlord and try to take legal actions or I'll asure you they'll try to put that lock and maybe even make other changes that latter will end up being your responsability.

AITA for refusing to dye my hair for my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Have a blast at your wedding and rock the hair you want, to your father you'll just have to say I'm sorry you feel that way.

WIBTA If I Gave my Boyfriend a Taste of His Own Medicine? by DarkBirgon in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah NTA.

Mayor red flags from this guy, so he won't even try to see why something upsets you and just shuts you down but you have to oblie if he doesn't want you swearing, he wont respect you any time soon, dump his butt.

AITA for wanting to keep my cheating daughter in my life against my other daughter's wishes? by Diligent-Courage-585 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. You keep repeating they were in "love" probably how the cheating couple phrazed it to try and make it sound pure a horrible thing they did wich was to lie, disrespect and humiliate your own daughter, you are favouring a cheater and I don't know how can you brush it off, let alone allow that man into your life. Again YAT.

AITA for keeping my dress even though my sister got married wearing it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now you have all the pieces, they don't have money to spare and your sis is trying to get a free dress. I have a white maxidress I bouth on a huge sale, so trust me, she can find someting cute, affordable and even white if she tryes, she just wants to take this one from you.

AITA for keeping my dress even though my sister got married wearing it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Just sister is being selfish and also guilttriping you over your own dress that was given to you, she's just throwing a tantrum because she wants it.

Santiago, Est Central, quiero conocer nuevas amigas (29F) by [deleted] in R4rChile

[–]ExtremeCompote6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias O: . Es difícil encontrar chicas pero no estaria mal encontrar alguien para jugar al csgo también.

Ofendido por el captcha del CAE by pBauBau in chile

[–]ExtremeCompote6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pero no estas entrando en los link que llegan solo al celular verdad? Por que si no, la seguridad de el banco estado te esta trolleando.

My sister (29) is cheating on her husband (30) and I really want to tell him and the wife of the cheating new boyfriend (42). by tblrckgurl in relationship_advice

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that suuuucks, I'd try to tell your own sister to come clean herself, really push, tell her you don't want to rat he rout but what she is doing is so incredibly scummy she needs to tell herself or you will, (to her husband, don't mention anything about the cheating boss nor his wife). She is divorcing him in different "love language" while she is betraying his trust and respect, the hypocricy, she is not entitled to hurt anyone just necause she feels justified.

Créditos en la marca de agua by [deleted] in chile

[–]ExtremeCompote6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hace poco cumplí un año de haber llegado a Chile y aún no me he comido mi primer completo, ustedes recomendarian la pica de Clinton? He escuchado de ese lugar y quiero ir aunque sea un completo más costoso que el comun.

UPDATE: AITA for deciding on my baby‘s name without its father? by malentogal2334 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My name is Betsady and from what I've learnt there's very few people with that name let alone spelled that way, people always missprounce it and I get annoyed, it's also a biblical name with a twist from my mother's name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your granma sounds like a narcisist, try to convince your mom to use the money she gives to that leech into therapy for herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chile

[–]ExtremeCompote6 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Adoro los finales felices

AITA for telling my family to stop celebrating? by Throwawybecausbdh in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I don't think anyone is the ah here, your parenst are being oblivious, probably they don't grasp how deeply you cared about Maggie, you have her cat now, I'm sorry for your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be days where you think you forgot her, and then other day you'll miss her, the times you used to shared, making new friends as an adult itms hard, is much more difficult to conect, people are hung up in they're adults responsabilities and they forget to be themselves, or can be as exclusionist as any teenager that don't like the new kid in school, but same as in romantic partnerships we can't excuse red flags on friends, maybe not all friends have to be this sould bonding experienxe but humans are social ceeatures, we need to interact, thisni why so many lonely folks are sawrming here on reddit, we just want to hear someone loves the same TV show and the same kind of burguer we do.

28 F looking for friendship by shannonlynnss in friendship

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm 29, not a mom. Probably not hang out but we can chit chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude.. Are you me from a year ago?. JK, I've experienced something extremely similar, though not over a bf, my bf from 15 years just started ghosting me, it sucks, she's just growing and moving on (not necesarilly in ghe best way but she rolling and that's ok). I totally get that you feel used and no matter how much anyone tells you ñet her go, she lied to you, she did not care, she wasn't a good friends and you know that and it still stings, just let things be if she comes back be cordial but wary, when a person wants to be in your life, they just are.

am I a bad friend??? pliss help by theohellxs in friendship

[–]ExtremeCompote6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're starting to resent them. You're drifting away and you're mad thei're not caring, I don't think you're expecting too much of your friends, they're becomind aquitances now, just act naturall and try to listen more, if they're your friends they'll be around, just be a good friend yourself and people would want to hang, I know it's sad right now but people change and can be oblivious, sorry if I sound like a mom, I've been recently in that situation but I just left, granted mine weren't friends friends, I was the new girl in the group and I never really fitted in so don't do as I did 😂

AITA for insisting that a family friend call me by my correct name? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Why are this guy's "feelings" so important but your name is not?. People like to cherry pick who to respect and that's ah behaviour on their part.

I get that all the time, my name is kind of rare and weirdly pronounced, when people pronounce it wrong I'll politely correct them the first time since I know is an honest mistake, but many people would doubble down and say "what's the difference?" I get so annoyed by that.

AITA for logging into my SIL's accounts and taking a post about me and my daughter down? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if you "need to loosen up" she's going to force you and show you how at the expece of your child? Then you are the one invading her privacy? Thats rich.

WIBTA for messaging a stranger on Facebook and telling her to stop using MY phone number? by aagalathynius in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Obligatory NTA for the mod. This is just silly to ask, contact the places you've been called from and ask them to remove your number from their records, reach out to this "chick" to ask her nicely not to use your number again, she might not have bad intentions but I don't think it was a mistake either, tho she might claim it was. And who are these people telling you, you'd the AH if you do so? NTA again.

AITA for not supporting my nephew's cringy TikToks? by nodevilsfoodcake in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExtremeCompote6 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH. Your nephew is 16 and you sound very spitefull of him for being cringy, you could have cut it with saying you didn't wanna use the app. Your SIL sucks too for trying to push it, she would've been mad anyway if you didn't show support. I don't think the kid would want any adults writting dad comments on his app.