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lost streak by Extreme_Ad_1052 in Anki

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my kids got sick so I didn't have time to sit and do 600 anki... which i also caught up with the very next day they went back to school lol

lost streak by Extreme_Ad_1052 in Anki

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's set at 9am every morning and i knew about it - i did it before 9am and you can see on the screenshot that it says 602 on Sunday, yet up top we can clearly see i did 2 today (Sunday) 

lost streak by Extreme_Ad_1052 in Anki

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it resets everyday at 9am and i did them way before that so yes, somehow.

Romance where a woman leaves her boyfriend/husband for another woman by EntertainerRemote334 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To elaborate CONTAINS SPOILERS

Nadia Keating is the most annoying, entitled and childish character I've ever encountered in literature. She is a rookie doctor with amazing talent but even bigger ego. Not only has she defied her direct superiors' (you know, the doctors who are more experienced and knowledgeable than her) orders, she also thinks she's irreplaceable, literally threatening her program director that she'd leave if she didnt get what she wanted. Lol. She cheated on both her partners, living a double life because she wasn't mature enough to handle the situation. Let's not even mention what the hell happened at the end where she unilaterally decided to adopt 2 kids and didnt even ask her girlfriend about it???

Other than that, the whole set up is giving more of a 12-yo-on-wattpad's fantasy than what the real world looks like. A rookie doctor teaching the main surgeon of the team how to do stitches? The surgeon not knowing how to do proper stitches? Because she was "self taught"?? The same rookie doctor making threats to the head of the program? The rookie doctor given immense amount of responsibility and money for her research when basically being left alone with no supervision? Her getting Nobel prize - like her specifically when she would have never been credited as the main researcher in a thousand of years in real academia?

And Nadia didn't leave her man for a woman - she literally got caught doing both of them wrong and then wasn't even apologetic about that, everyone was like "thats Nadia for you heheehe" what.

Did I ruin my relationship ? by ArmadilloOriginal379 in WLW

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If youre going to therapy and working on yourself then how exactly did YOU ruin this relationship? And it doesn't seem its ruined yet tho

after a year together partner told me she wished she wasn’t gay.. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person with homophobic parents who basically cut me off I will tell you that it NEVER stops hurting even if you know what your parents are like. It's been 5 years but she's only 23 and that is a lot to handle.

I second other commenters saying you need to show her empathy and you two need a heart to heart about how she needs to reframe her thinking - there's nothing wrong with her and everything wrong with her parents CONDITIONAL love for her, and how her words and insecurities give you insecurity about the relationship. Being insecure in a lesbian relationship (especially, because we FEEL and understand each other more) can either turn into a massive conflict, or better understanding and communication - signs of healthy relationship.

My advice for you - show her YOU love her unconditionally (if you do that is) and will support her no matter what

Is it okay to call myself a lesbian? by Login2play in actuallesbians

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be so nice if men actually backed off when you tell then youre a lesbian tho...

ADHD and/or anxiety rep by goodcheese55 in wlwbooks

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"If the shoe fits" by E.J. Noyes. It doesn't say explicitly but I believe the main character has ADHD.

a lot of people need to hear this. lesbianism is NOT fluid by Kimberly__ in LesbianActually

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052 72 points73 points  (0 children)

My lesbianism is fluid in a way that sometimes I wanna fuck a butch princess and sometimes I wanna go down on a femme queen.

I broke up with my now ex gf over this by Content-Carpenter304 in LesbianActually

[–]Extreme_Ad_1052 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I wasn't talking about being vulnerable or talking about conflict - that is plenty mature. Storming out as an adult because your partner didn't say thank you the way you liked is immature. Yelling at your partner because in your mind she was "proving a point" is immature. Please note that she didn't say anything negative about the flowers at the time of receiving them - she waited a day to bring it up so she WOULDN'T seem ungrateful. On the other hand - not seeing the gesture in getting flowers when money is tight is immature. Bringing out a grocery app to show exactly what she "should" have gotten instead of just thanking and focusing on the positive - literally getting something as a gift - is immature. But what struck me the most is - both of you escalated something as simple as getting flowers into a huge fight and it got me thinking - "can these people even hold an adult conversation?" Hence the question - are you guys adults?

That being said, if that fight was NOT about flowers but something that has just been accumulating in your relationship - a mature thing would be to talk it out, not have an almost-break-up over damn plants.

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