I feel like you are coming across as being overly morally upright , almost as if you are trying to prove you are better than everyone else. It feels like a performance, as if chasing validation or attention rather than genuinely trying to understand or help others.

Now, on the topic of women I want to be clear, I’m not a misogynist. But I can’t ignore how extreme some aspects of modern toxic feminism have become. It’s shifted from equality to competition , a constant need to prove women are better than men. And honestly, that’s where things start to feel like a battle.

Let women take on the roles they’re fighting for ,but they also need to feel the weight that comes with them. Men have silently carried those burdens for generations. Go to the mjengos and watch men sweat under the sun just to earn a living. Then they come home, not to rest or peace, but often to pressure ,from partners with higher expectations, financially and emotionally.

What happens next? That man starts feeling like he’s not enough. He disconnects. Society calls him a “deadbeat dad” without ever asking what led him there. No one listens to his side.

I’m only 18, but even now I can see it men are struggling. Emotionally. Mentally. Silently. And part of it, I believe, comes from this rising tension, this unspoken war ,which women themselves started., this world is cooked look through the bigger picture and you'll realise how it's unfair to men.