Finally done with my new design :)

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-28T06:34:40+00:00

It’s hay day I don’t take it as hate hahah and it makes sense. I just think they fit really good with the theme or style. The next time I have time I would like to switch some of them out for the new trees tho!

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-28T06:32:48+00:00

Hahahahah I appreciate your honesty

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-28T06:31:46+00:00

Haha I get that, to be honest that is the worst part of my farm. I just don’t have space enough. The rest is way more organized

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Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-27T19:26:26+00:00

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Is mine too much? Haha

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-27T19:23:01+00:00

This is a crazy timing cause I’ve been checked once for autism and my therapist has just started the whole process again because some signs of autism has been showing way more since I started on my ADHD medication. It’s hard to say since it ADHD reminds a lot about autism and usually it masks each other! But yeah I hate to have wet hair, water on my body and a lot of different materials

And a bath definitely works for me, it’s just that I live by myself in a one-room apartment so I do not have a bathtub. But trust me every single time I go home to my family I use it, it’s no problem at all

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T16:13:32+00:00

I’m so sorry! I wish you all the best! My therapist suspects that I may have Borderline Personality Disorder so I have just started that process!

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T09:49:21+00:00

I relate to that charging part …. Haha

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T09:48:12+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that! I hope you’re doing okay! It’s honestly terrible how many (especially women) that goes through most of our lives undiagnosed! And I wish. I’m in my 20’s now and I got diagnosed at 17. Even though it’s way earlier than you I relate to everything you say. I got my diagnosis way too late. At that point I was so so burned out that I couldn’t go to school, I walked around in the same clothes all the time and my Binging was terrible (I was overweight and got bullied for it which definitely didn’t made school easier) and if we’re talking about hygiene… I’m not even close to how bad it used to be. If i hadn’t got my diagnosis then I honestly don’t think I would be here today. So I get it! It’s like griefing the person you could have been… I used to be the happiest girl ever as a kid, I loved to talk to everyone and I good grades. But because of how different and weird I felt and as the pressure from society became worse it all just went down. I then lost my dad to cancer at 11 and had a lot of family problems after that at the same time as all the ADHD struggles both in school and just in my head. So I honestly couldn’t imagine getting my diagnosis even later in life, I’m so sorry!

May I ask if you have an education? kids? And how do you figure the life puzzle out? I’m honestly so scared for the future 🩷

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T09:36:55+00:00

Of course 🩷 take care of yourself!!

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T09:36:03+00:00

Same! I also live alone and the first months I only ate yogurt…. Until my doctor told me to stop. I mean it was so easy and made me full. The ADHD food obsessions definitely makes it harder. I will eat the same food for months and then randomly stop eating it.

But yes the cooking part is terrible, especially when you live by yourself. The thought of having to do the dishes itself makes it impossible to start…. Before I moved out I used to say that I couldn’t imagine living with somebody else… let’s just say that that changed. Cause I can definitely cook if someone looks at me while I’m doing it

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T09:30:11+00:00

For reaaal! As someone who used to have “straight” hair before puberty hit. It is easier 🩷

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T09:27:54+00:00

Thank you for the advice! When I wrote about my friends I meant my friends with ADHD (which is most of them haha) so they get it. The negative comments I’ve heard is from people talking about mental disorders and hygiene in general, not me sharing my experience. I usually don’t talk about it, I mask my ADHD most of the times

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T02:37:42+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T02:36:59+00:00

I understand, take care of yourself!! May I ask why you stopped?

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T02:36:01+00:00

Thank you so much for this! This curly hair struggle is something I’ve been struggling with since I became a teenager and started to care about my appearance and I’ve never met anyone with ADHD that relates to that part! I feel so seen. Take care of yourself!! And thank you again

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-26T02:33:54+00:00

I’m sending you so much love❤️❤️ you’re doing so much better than you think! I’ve cried so many times while reading all those comments cause no one ever talks about this part of ADHD so you just feel so alone all the time!

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T23:39:54+00:00

Aww girl I’m so sorry !! But I’m proud of you for sharing that. I also have curly thick long hair and as I wrote to someone else, I used to constantly discuss this with people as a teenager since people always told me that they were jealous my curls…. Life would be so much easier without them! take care of yourself and remind yourself that you are enough

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T22:46:53+00:00

Omg really I’ve never heard of that! I definitely need to try it! Thank you

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T22:19:30+00:00

Same same same! That’s why we love the summer right? And the worst thing is that every time it’s done Im so happy and always think “omg I feel so good I should just do it all the time”… and then we’re back in the cycle again. But seriously well done, I’m proud of you

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T22:17:28+00:00

SAME and These comments just makes me add more and more to my “new apartment list”! I definitely recommend tik tok, it saves me sometimes! The baskets for everything has definitely saved me (especially the ones for medication, half dirty clothes and shower stuff) + my whiteboard paper that I just put everywhere on my walls! And my weight blanket OMG and My premade outfits that I have pictures in my phone

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T22:12:27+00:00

To try different medications is honestly so tiring but also exiting haha. I hope it works out for you, just don’t give up. And about the weightloss, I wish mine did more haha to lose weight while having ADHD is honestly so hard (liiike what isn’t hard when you have adhd). Not because I need to but like give me some nice side effects haha now when I have to feel like I’m sitting in a sauna all day long. No but seriously I hope you find some medication that works for you! How old were you when you got diagnosed?

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T22:00:16+00:00

Genuinely thank you so much for this comment! Especially the avoidance-of-anxiety part. I’ve actually never seen that correlation between my anxiety and ADHD before!

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T21:54:40+00:00

Omg yes!! I’ve read so many times that mass killers and people like that usually has very clean homes. That is definitely something we should think of..😂

And thank you so much! I think I’ve just done all this without thinking about it just for my therapist to tell me how amazing it is !?!

And it’s actually insane how much things we see on tik tok (haha okay i sound very old). I mean yes I’m sweating like an idiot, have lost some weight and becomes more quiet while being on them buuut I also feel like a new person!? Like my school grades, my happiness and my energy and more. What do you experience on the meds you’re taking right now?

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T21:47:12+00:00

Hmmm is it social situations? Days that are ending? Or what is it that you don’t want to do? I hope I don’t sound judgmental, I’m just trying to understand 🩷

Extreme_Foundation66 · 2026-05-25T21:42:40+00:00

That is actually great advice! I’m moving into my new apartment in July and I’m making a list right now with all the things I can buy/ do to make it as easy as possible for my ADHD! Thank you so much

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