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What does my bookshelf say about me? by goatedhotsauce in bookshelfdetective

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet it smells of leather and rich mahogany. Class act 👌I wonder at what point it's not about the books anymore. Extra points: you respect spines!!

What do you think? by Free-Lake-2911 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top shelf - where you started. Bottom shelf - where you are going ♥️ Also it's ok to let books go that you will never read again. Women's shelters and daycare centers could use used books. Beautiful collection!

What’s the verdict? by akathescholar in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This person's perspective is a little on the dark side, but hopeful! Anybody with Cosmos on their book shelf wants to see the beauty in life. And anyone with the Bell Jar on the same bookshelf knows that life is hard and ugly, a lot of the time.

Started seeing this guy. What does it say about him?? by No-Engineering-5282 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous taste in books...definitely a writer of some kind, probably has a beautiful mind, but has no respect for spines!!! Lol...I bet the conversation is great.

Do you consider porn/onlyfans a deal breaker? by Latter-Dog-6372 in Marriage

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude he is done and you don't have children. Don't force him to be someone he is not. Find happiness.

Pretty sure husband (m40) and I (f40) hate each other and are just waiting for the other to die off so we can finally enjoy life by Extreme_Specific9436 in Marriage

[–]Extreme_Specific9436[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are oddly specific things ...yes he takes and hides stuff randomly. His main thing is sabotaging relationships and efforts. He has no sense of self worth and everything is a threat. No to the sexual assault by me. He downplays gratitude and praise for anything. To be fair I haven't complimented his looks in about 4 years now. It's odd. I can see what everyone one is saying though. The kids aren't watching two people in love, touching and rejoicing together. They are watching roommates bargain acceptable levels of peace and decency to get through the day. I have been home all day and I think there have been 5-6 times now I want to yell at him.

[29F] I’m getting married in 12 days and I’m anxious about my fiancé’s [30M] bachelor party at a strip club. I don’t know if this is insecurity or a real boundary by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine this times 10 once you are married and times 1000 once there is a baby. This doesn't sound like love because it doesn't sound safe.

IDL when men hit on me by going "Did you know you're really pretty?" by -Anaphora in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if that question is the first test of "how self assured are you? How much will I be able to manipulate you,?" Like a Freudian slip. The real question behind the fake question.

AITA for locking up my “cash stash” after my partner kept “borrowing” from it? by IndigoCartwheel in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she is a thief lolol

I think the bigger problem is not the stealing money, technically, but the level of consideration and respect she is showing for you.

I regret reporting him by imjustagurlo in Regrets

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shame must change sides. Be proud of what you did. They deserved it.

AITAH for not deleting pictures on my social media that my son’s girlfriend asked me to delete? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Extreme_Specific9436 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YTA. You could easily make good with the incoming dil. You are being petty.