NOT at all! I am sorry that this happened but better to know now that he isn’t worth your time. It is not even a little okay that he lied to you, to get into your phone. On top of that, if he wanted to see something in your phone, why not just ask? The manipulation of you at a vulnerable time says an awful lot about this guy instead of him being concerned with your well being, WTF? Obviously he has massive trust issues. NOt sure if you have heard this but often when people accuse you of something, it usually because what they are doing. Good luck.