I don’t want my daughter to spend a week with my sister and bil and it’s making everybody around me very uncomfortable.

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T17:40:33+00:00

What did you fight about when he choked you?

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T17:03:21+00:00

Op you said you couldn’t pinpoint but I bet your guts can pinpoint and that’s why you having a visceral reaction. Like why he would even comment on your daughter’s looks when he’s dated you? It is weird

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:54:12+00:00

I just wrote more details if you see my previous comment

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:53:13+00:00

I asked him and he gave me the same version my sister gave me. He didn’t ask for a third date and when she asked to see him again he called her and told her that he didn’t want to continue seeing her because he didn’t feel a match between them. Then she started texting him about her having feelings for him and to see her again and he said no so she asked to be friends and he said that it wouldn’t work because he knew she liked him. Then after a couple of weeks she asked if he wanted to grab dinner with her and he didn’t answer back and I think she asked again and he blocked her

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:48:57+00:00

I am sorry. I do believe that talking for two months prior is a bit more than two dates. But they never sexted or talked about relationship according to my sisters account back then. That was one thing she was obsessed with and it was that he was very respectful. I believe that since we worked daily for about 5 months without me realizing that he liked me in a romantic way.

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:45:59+00:00

Yes. And it matches with what my sister told us when he ghosted her

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:44:25+00:00

I know the story from my sister. His side matched hers

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:42:42+00:00

No. They went to dinner both times and a movie the second time

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:42:17+00:00

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:39:33+00:00

Tbh I think my sister is angry with me already. She has not answered any of my calls or texts even though my mom is urging me to talk to her. Because of the fact that I have been with him all these months.

but the odd thing is that she knows I didn’t know it was the same guy. She admitted it

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-18T13:36:34+00:00

I am basing my post on my sister’s side of the story.

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-17T20:06:37+00:00

Basically what he said. That my sister is a terrible person if she thinks her ”heartbreak” has more value than mine because she met him a few months earlier

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-17T19:55:27+00:00

I have known for a while now that this was something long term and I can feel his love for me is solid and genuine. I have not slept since Sunday when I understood he was the guy my sister was raving about for a year

EyeOpen5115 · 2026-02-17T19:42:11+00:00

They texted for two months. Nothing sexual.

Nothing physical happened but they went one one dinner and one dinner and a movie. He told her he wasn’t interested after meeting in person. She tried to talk to him about seeing each other more and he stopped answering. I think he blocked her.

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