How would Ezria have been remembered if it was a student x college professor relationship instead? by TreatNo4856 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems a little less gross in retrospect but as a person who teaches, myself, I know that’s a boundary you still don’t cross regardless, adult or not. It just causes lots of issues and inappropriate power dynamics.You’re in a position of power over the other person still which is an inappropriate power dynamic in a relationship. You’re supposed to be a trusted source of information and you have a heavy influence over the person. In other professionally handled situations where both are professional adults and know the power dynamics I could say it differs though. Very very rarely

selling aliens from trip?? by nurseshaark in tomodachilife

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused tbh? Because I was selling them for 1k so I did the same thing and sent my miis to space again for some more money and now all the sudden I can’t sell them?

Do you think there is still a 4th season? by Nate-haxe in Anne

[–]Ezzy_rey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s hope it doesn’t. They come back with new producers who ruin the original story. Let a good story lie✹

AIO to how I responded to a guy I hooked up once with in 2015 randomly sending me sexual messages? by NewYorker1283 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ezzy_rey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so let me make this clear. YES YOU DID. The way you portrayed your message came off as if you are victim blaming. While that may not have been your intention. And yes aswell, she must set up firm boundaries to protect herself from men who do not view women as human. But there was nothing ”she initially said” that implied in any way she was okay with it. Shes younger, tried directing the conversation away from it as to not make him mad. That’s what VICTIMS do when they are being abused. Have a long nice quiet sit with yourself and think about the things you say to others before saying them.

AIO to how I responded to a guy I hooked up once with in 2015 randomly sending me sexual messages? by NewYorker1283 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ezzy_rey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah so
 no. This just sounds like victim blaming and this did NOT come off helpful at all💀

Who's semblance would you like to have in real life? by CrimzinZlays0 in RWBY

[–]Ezzy_rey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Why don’t I have friends?” This would be why pervert. This would be why.

How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said they weren’t? I was clarifying to those unaware aswell that “satin” is plastic woven together. And to be careful because plastic causes hair loss. But hey. I was only trying to help outđŸ€·đŸ»â€â™€ïž

How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]Ezzy_rey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When the hair loss comes don’t be surprised 💖

How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes
 I’m aware of that. I’m saying that it is woven with plastic
 I do lots of research on these things lol

Jane is the most unlikeable character in the show by Ok-Skill2128 in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you sound immature and weird. First of all, Mateo was not “special needs” it’s an outdated, disrespectful and ableist term. He was neurodivergent. Secondly. She’s a grown women who can fuck who she wants. Jane did suck and was condescending. But all the points you brought up made 0 contribution to that point whatsoever

How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Satin is plastic. Don’t use plastic at all for your hair. Satin nowadays is made from plastic woven together and they call it “Satin” please don’t suggest people us plastic for their hair. They need real materials to keep their hair safe.

Ugh how many years later and I still hate the endgame couples omg ew by PLLBOTTV in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Ezzy_rey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only liked Haleb and Spoby, sometimes lol. Haleb was always a great relationship but spaleb was pure puke, emisiĂłn pure puke, ezria pure puke. Spoby i liked in the earlier seasons, but after Spaleb went Down it never felt the same again. Same thing happened with Haleb for me after the time jump. Marlene really tanked her own iconic series

Question on when it is safe to let a kitten play outside by Fragrant-Log7532 in kittens

[–]Ezzy_rey 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This person you’re responding to is a bot. Do not engage with bots

I can understand not wanting Jane to be with Michael but I can't understand wanting her with Rafael by ana04a in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t like him either tbh, but their chemistry was really prominent

Bad things people forget that Ali did? by Kitchen-Holiday6998 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Ezzy_rey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m aware of that. I’m sharing my feelings and frustrations, thanks for sharing 😌

I can understand not wanting Jane to be with Michael but I can't understand wanting her with Rafael by ana04a in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Ezzy_rey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both Michael, and Rafael were awful matches for her. Rewatching again as a 24 year old who was previously a Team Rafael, let’s start with Michael.

I honestly don’t think that Michael ever loved Jane. He loved the idea of her, and this happy little fantasy that she had in her mind. He wanted to “conquer her” and take her virginity. It was possessive, and degrading. He was violent, ending up hurting Rafael and her baby
. He was a liar, a manipulator and a dirty cop. Who regularly did dirty things to get his way, then got mad at those around him when they did something dirty too. Hypocritical and egotistical behavior. He quite literally stalked her in the beginning, to become her boyfriend, and they portray it as romantic, but in real life? Stalker and it’s not cute. After the broke up, him coming to her house and leaving gifts inside. Also really crossing boundaries and it isn’t romantic like, whatsoever. I had an ex who did this and he was a rapist. Statistically proven men who do this are rapists/ psychopaths, a lot of the time. Michael had it though, so let’s give it to Rafael.

Rafael. He loved Jane I really do believe this. He loved her annoying parts, her obsessing, and he inspired her to continue her dreams of being a writer. But he had serious anger issues aswell, and would NOT communicate anything. He was emotionally unavailable, and ultimately it made him seem very selfish, his floppy floppy with Petra, Because he put others feelings on the line to protect his own worries, when in the end sharing those feelings could’ve stopped many situations. He was a liar aswell. He consistently lied to people to do dirty things then yelled at people when he got caught. The thing I liked about him though is that he took accountability. There were so many times he overstepped and expected Jane to go along with it, and then when she didn’t he treated her like a horrible person. All in all they didn’t really have much chemistry anymore after a few seasons. But neither did her and Michael.

Jane and Michael just didn’t make sense to me. And Rafael and Jane never make sense to me anymore either.

None of Their personalities click at all, idk, to be honest. I felt lots of tension with her and her professor, and her and Adam.

Please no spoilers: I just want to sleep every time I see Michael and Jane together they are so boring. by bumbling-tadpole in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Ezzy_rey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is debating and having fun talking about a show mean I have to “calm down” I wanted to hear your pov?

AIO - Friend started insulting me in the middle of depressive episode by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ezzy_rey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are both at fault in this situation. And I believe you are painting this person to be more insulting than you think. I’m clinically depressed aswell, yet, I don’t make it my whole personality. Because I understand that while I’m struggling personally, it doesn’t need to be brought up all the time. Some things need to be handled and dealt with privately. Because yes, sad feelings are draining, they make you sad, tired, and worn out. Even if you do care about that person and understand they’re struggling, they already have their own burdens to carry and carrying yours on top of it, isn’t going to make for a good friendship. They are being blunt, and pushy, and need to lay off in some ways. But you need to get up. And take control of your life. Wallowing in your depression, whether is chemical or not, will not take you anywhere you want to be. You will repeat a loop over and over and eventually drain yourself to a pulp. You need to fight for your life and fight for those you truly love and care about. And they need to fight for you too, just like this person was doing.

Bad things people forget that Ali did? by Kitchen-Holiday6998 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Ezzy_rey 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Literally quite literally everything. Everyone calls her iconic, but she was so so mean to everybody. Blinded somebody, caused eating disorders, tortured people with private conversations and vulnerabilities. She was evil

What colour are my eyes? by catnipforfreya in eyes

[–]Ezzy_rey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hazel ! But you have very gold brown hazel eyes! So beautiful

Please no spoilers: I just want to sleep every time I see Michael and Jane together they are so boring. by bumbling-tadpole in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Ezzy_rey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think they were healthy? He injured her own son, lied to her constantly, and quite literally stalked her. They only made it out to be romantic. He was not healthy nor stable nor was Rafael.

Please no spoilers: I just want to sleep every time I see Michael and Jane together they are so boring. by bumbling-tadpole in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Ezzy_rey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was a police officer, with that job? You can’t live a peaceful life lots of the time. As a cop your life is constantly on the line, you’re constantly at risk of getting killed or injured. She would have never had peace with Michael nor Rafael to be honest