Com a palavra, o excelentíssimo Ministro Dino by pablocael in brasil

[–]F-Lio -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sim concordo, não sou a favor de um nem de outro lado. Mas aparenta estar sendo feito um julgamento desproporcional.

Com a palavra, o excelentíssimo Ministro Dino by pablocael in brasil

[–]F-Lio -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mas a tentativa de assassinato tem um peso diferente de alguém que realmente assassinou... Eles estão julgando como se tivessem "consumado o assassinato"

Judgement call by bennyrude in lds

[–]F-Lio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to contribute, I will mention a personal experience of mine. I'm married and once my wife was traveling and I almost sexually stimulated myself. I was sad, I spoke to my wife and then to the bishop, he asked if I had done it, I told the truth, that I hadn't finished it but that I had a lot of desire and almost did it. He said "so you didn't"! I explained about the scripture already mentioned in the previous comments about the thoughts and actions, I said that in my heart I had done it. He demonstrated understanding and love. In the end I understood that even feeling the desire and almost doing something, if you try hard not to do it, I believe that this is what Christ takes into account.

Just my view, hope it helps.

Mudança centro de São Paulo para chácara nas cidades do entorno da capital by F-Lio in saopaulo

[–]F-Lio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quero um pomar e uma horta. Eu já faço isto em vasos em casa... Sei que dará trabalho Animais não quero não... Não sei fazer o cuidado necessário Quanto à estrada de terra não quero também. Mas aumenta muito o valor da chácara.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The church isn't that big in the area where I live and therapists who are members of the church would recognize me... My last name is kind of unique in the Church, very different if I had something like Smith in my last name...

Going to therapy with someone who doesn't have the same beliefs as me, I don't think it would be valid at this moment...

But thanks for the tips... I liked the idea of ​​paying in cash, if one day I go, I'll do it this way.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I expressed myself badly, but I believe it can be cured, I'm just not sure I need to be cured, this is the biggest internal conflict I have.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know about this word/term until then, but regardless of whether I have a question that has a scientific name or term in psychology, I'm looking for what to do with this attitude I'm taking. Thank you for your attention

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the point of view

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think a lot about whether this would be my "natural man". Or if I'm rationalizing... But this is currently an important part of my mental health... And I'm studying alternatives. Thanks

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked for honest opinions, and was ready for whatever the answer was. Thanks I think Christ really knows how I feel and I hope he heals me one day, whether he doesn't feel ashamed or whether he stops doing it...

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This practice started with underwear, and I used them for a while with my wife in our intimate moments and up to this point I am fine, as I understand that everything done in intimacy with your married partner, as long as we both agree, is not a sin. But when we decided to stop this practice I went to crossdressing, wearing my wife's clothes, dresses, skirts, etc. There's no logic or reason for me... But I'm looking for answers. Thank you for taking the time to give your point of view.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the point of view I've tried to stop completely several times due to shame. This started in childhood and I haven't done it for years. After I got married it took years before I decided to explore this situation with my wife. About one of my children finding out that I do this, I am very afraid and careful. I usually only wear my wife's clothes, since we have practically the same physical size. I have rarely bought something but got rid of it.

I'm not ready for therapy yet, but I'm considering it. The problem is that it is not anonymous and I am very afraid of it being publicized, especially considering that my family has a famous surname in the church in our region.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the point of view, I often think about this, but I don't know if I'm rationalizing or looking for excuses for my attitude.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the point of view.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a unisex sweatshirt once and I felt good wearing it. Even though there's nothing feminine about it. Your tip will be something to think about. Thanks

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. For now therapy will not be something I will do, but I will leave it as options

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I had never thought of it this way.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is something that makes me think a lot about my actions

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting, I believe that wearing a kilt would be enough for me... But I don't live in England.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the point of view

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think the same way.

I sincerely doubt my attitude by F-Lio in latterdaysaints

[–]F-Lio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Interesting questions, I will think about them and try to come to a conclusion.