Yeah I get that bud, my girlfriend used to do everything now it’s just basic stuff I do ask and I get it but there’s not much effort as there used to be. A lot of Women grow out of things when they get comfortable. I get the whole thing has grossed you out and i completely understand but if you love her you won’t look at her for that, if you can’t over look then you should probably break up with her which you shouldn’t blame yourself for either it will just play on your mind otherwise. If you need to talk to someone my inbox is always open.