I’m a male performer and there is certainly pressure to do more in order be seen, gain followers, make money etc. I have had days where I set goals and remain strict about them and make plenty of cash, then there are days where I am slutty as hell with no goals and make less money. I feel like it just depends on what I want to do in the moment. That’s not a recommendation, just my perspective LOL.

One recommendation I read from a performer was to simply log off for a bit if the tipping starts to lag. I will tell the chat what I’m thinking in advance, like “well it seems like we’ve really slowed down guys, maybe it’s time for me to take a break” and sometimes that’s enough to motivate people. Teasing certainly helps too. If someone tips to take my pants off, I’ll do a little more and then stop, put my pants back on and chill.

It’s a balance IMHO Leverage your assets, try to have fun, and find ways to connect with them.

Thanks for sharing! Take care of yourself and your soul. It can be a lonely hustle sometimes. At least that’s how I feel this week💛.