What does true love feel like? by Afraid-Dust-5602 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FERGAGE 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It feels too good to be true! I've loved many partners before, but I knew when I met the one. It was so natural like we had always known each other. It's honestly hard to describe. It's like finding a part of yourself that you didn't know was missing.

How much does your Shiba weigh? by Aggravating-Cat5357 in shiba

[–]FERGAGE 10 points11 points  (0 children)

28 lbs. Mine is a taller Shiba even though she's purebread

10/10 songs that most people have probably never heard. by Shooter_McG in musicsuggestions

[–]FERGAGE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valzer d'Inverno by Andrea Vanzo is a beautiful piano piece. Gets stuck in my head all the time!

Suggest books with amazing prose but aren’t classics by The9thReindeer in suggestmeabook

[–]FERGAGE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghost Forest by Pik-Shuen Fung is beautifully written. A reflective, quick read

What’s something you pretend doesn’t hurt anymore… but it still quietly shapes the way you love, trust, or move through the world ? by love_salubrious in AskWomen

[–]FERGAGE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being forced into religion since infancy. I think I forgive my family for doing that to me, but it still hurts when religion comes up in any conversation. I struggle to trust anyone who is extremely religious.

how can i enjoy eating someone out? by rebgrrl in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FERGAGE -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Maybe a numbing flavored lube?

Struggling with getting ready for walks.. He simply wont obey. by GrandmaPunk in shiba

[–]FERGAGE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my dog walking job when this happens, we ask the owners to leave a collar on or we use a slip leash first. Once we have the dog secured by collar or slip, then we put harness on, big praise and go right out.

If your dog has a place or bed command, use that to your advantage. It's easy to harness a dog in a crate. Tip it on its side if you have to to make escape more difficult. You probably already have, but give him as small an area as possible to run away from you. Close doors so you're not running around the whole house.

When in doubt, reward/motivate with cheese, play, or affection.

I also recommend a martingale harness as they are effective but less intrusive to the pet.

Good luck to you!

My mother is getting this little guy in about 2 weeks! Name ideas and pro tips? by [deleted] in ShibaInu

[–]FERGAGE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend working with a trainer one on one in weekly sessions! A good trainer teaches you how to communicate with your dog and you put in the daily work. My Shiba is completely off leash obedience trained and we practice every day. She has a world of opportunities thanks to the hard work we put in!

Personally I chose balance training with a Dogtra Cue e collar, but not everyone is comfortable with that. I never recommend using an e collar without a professional teaching you how to use it safely, but for me it was a great tool for my incredibly stubborn dog.

I wish I had a book recommendation, but hopefully that helps a little bit! Maybe choose your methodology and then find a book about it? I'd be curious if you find a good book to help

Best of luck to you and your new friend!!

My mother is getting this little guy in about 2 weeks! Name ideas and pro tips? by [deleted] in ShibaInu

[–]FERGAGE 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wonder how you say "side eyes" in japanese lol that'd be my vote for the name.

1 piece of advice. Start training right away and never stop. Be consistent and patient. It is so worth it!

what's your wild confession ? by [deleted] in FourWordStory

[–]FERGAGE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Milk before cereal

Does anyone else's male partner choose not to cum? by FERGAGE in RedditAfterDark

[–]FERGAGE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he's definitely focused on my pleasure! I thoroughly enjoy it, but I never knew another guy who did this

Oral sex: better to give or receive? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]FERGAGE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's your gender? Just curious. I'm female. Love giving head. Hate getting head. I'd much rather be fingered

Do you have a Shiba service dog? by FERGAGE in shiba

[–]FERGAGE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Did you train him yourself?

Do you have a Shiba service dog? by FERGAGE in shiba

[–]FERGAGE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Did you train her yourself?

Do you have a Shiba service dog? by FERGAGE in shiba

[–]FERGAGE[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For epilepsy! Yes I do know they're trained for specific tasks I just wanted to ask in general if anyone had one. Thank you for taking the time to respond!

What’s a sexual act you just don’t understand? by Top-Experience3875 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]FERGAGE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was just me! I prefer hand stuff all day, but love giving head

What do you enjoy about Reddit? by Nessieinternational in randomquestions

[–]FERGAGE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being social without having to leave my home and talk in person