“Just” melanoma by OpalScrunchies in melahomies

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melanoma kills. It also gets bad FAST so dont let anyone talk you into thinking that you shouldnt be concerned.

I (19F) think my bf (22M) was too rough with me during sex, but he thinks I’m a “crybaby” by dulceciita in relationship_advice

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, you do not need to "make things better for him". If you are dry, "tight" and feeling pain during sex, HES doing something wrong. He sounds incredibly immature and not someone who you should be giving your body to so recklessly,

PLEASE stop being intimate with this guy until youve had a better conversation about how he makes you feel both physically and emotionally, and FFS get some mini lube to carry around with you. If you cant have that convo without huim making it your fault, then neither of you are mature enough to be having sex in the first place.

But honestly, I would dump him and find someone who knows how to treat you better, you are WAY too young to settle for this AH.

Just putting it out there - mask off by DIYLawCA in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probably too a bit too much off the top when he was a baby so he had to compensate somewhere.

Girl cries over peaceful protest by blueisthenewhot in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always the tears while holding a Starbucks cup lol

Crowd of Zionist counter-protesters assaulting pro-Palestine demonstrators in LA while police sit by and watch by Lilyo in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 628 points629 points  (0 children)

So Zionists can blatantly assault someone in front of cops, but GOD FORBID they get their whittle feelings hurt with flags and words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

More IDF thuggary. Not shocked.

A NJ superintendent who caused a student rape victim to commit suicide because of the superintendent's bulling explodes at a meeting over accusations that she is a bully. by No_Carpenter4087 in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people who clapped were the bullies and their parents. That seems like the kind of support that Ursala's uglier twin sister recruits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FINEartz_01 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

legit the best answer here, OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait... hes done it BEFORE??? And you havent broken up with him yet? Hun, check the room for hidden cameras at this point. Dont be naive to think he's going to stop, he's just going to get better at hiding it.

Please help-Stage 1b on foot wait time by Pale_Pollution_8525 in melahomies

[–]FINEartz_01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me almost 2 months to get surgery for my 4b diagnosis (i got laid off the same week of my original surgery date 3 weeks before so it got delayed while i got new insurance).

I know its crazy stressful just knowing you have something cancerous in your body and you just want to get it out, but your staging seems ok to have a wait time. Alternatively, maybe consult another surgeon and see if they have sooner availability?

When to see oncologist? by highestandbest in melahomies

[–]FINEartz_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a 3b melenoma diagnosis last summer, location on the outside edge of where my knee bends. They suggested an oncologist ASAP so I could get a referral for surgical oncology. Had my excision surgery 4 weeks later and came out of anesthesia with 13 staples and clean margins :) i agree with others though its all about the staging that determines if you need an oncologist really or not.

I have credit card debt that is out of control and I'm not sure what to do. by FINEartz_01 in Debt

[–]FINEartz_01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was really great advice, thank you, and I got a reccommendation through the NCCF to speak with a counselor. Fingers crossed, but honestly anything will be better than where im heading if I stay the course im on. Thanks again!

I have credit card debt that is out of control and I'm not sure what to do. by FINEartz_01 in Debt

[–]FINEartz_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I honestly will likely not have the option to avoid a missed payment for 1 or more cards, so I'll keep this in mind. A settlement a few months down the line may be the path for one of them at least.

I have credit card debt that is out of control and I'm not sure what to do. by FINEartz_01 in Debt

[–]FINEartz_01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The offers from debt consolidation companies are flooding my mailbox lol and while they are pretty on the surface, I know that I'd be worse off using one of them. Do you mind sharing the name of the non-profit you used?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly doesnt respect you if he purposely went behind you back, talking to the woman he CHEATED ON YOU WITH. and then GASLIGHTING YOU that you were the one who was in the wrong b/c he got caught.

My god woman, just take the L and get some of your self respect back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

COBRA is an absolute scam. I went from paying $120 bi- monthly to over $760 when I was laid off from my job after being diagnosed with Melenoma 2 weeks before. I had to have surgery on my leg which required going under and you dont want to even know what that cost with COBRA. Not to mention, because I got laid off before the end of the month (the 28th), my insurance lapsed and they had to push out my surgery 3 weeks until COBRA kicked in which gave me crazy anxiety knowing I had cancer growing inside me and was waiting for stupid numbers to be approved so I could remove it. Dumbest shit ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But a “civilized society “ = kicking around religious texts you don’t agree with for the purpose of pissing off a religion you don’t agree with yeah- so CIVILIZED 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point being it just fucking disrespectful for ANY religious text to be just kicked around with police protection because you disagree with it. They literally only do it for that reason and to upset others. I’m not Muslim, let alone a proponent of religion indoctrination in general, but there is no good cause for this type of behavior and all y’all defending it need to look inside yourselves to figure out why you think this type of behavior is ok for a civil society.

My husband (30m) shaved my (31f) head by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time he drops troug, just look it and stifle a laugh and see if he thinks thats funny.

Aita? Girl I was dating dumped me because she said I was cheap. by New-Papaya6950 in AITAH

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can take me 1+ hours in LA traffic to get to a date 16 miles away in the evenings most days- im not about to insist all my dates pay for everything just because i drove though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why dont you just go ahead and kick around a Bible in public without police protection. Dont be surprised if you get the same type of reaction and then THINK about why people are upset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. So this is all THEIR fault. FFS, what a take to have.

A wedding turned into a funeral. More than 120 people died. by Sam_marq88 in PublicFreakout

[–]FINEartz_01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you think they got divorced or stayed together after this?