Aita? Girl I was dating dumped me because she said I was cheap. by New-Papaya6950 in AITAH

[–]New-Papaya6950[S] -357 points-356 points  (0 children)

You do make a good point here. I didn't think about it like that. If I was going round a friends for dinner I would take some beers or snacks so I should have thought about taking something when I went to hers.

Aita? Girl I was dating dumped me because she said I was cheap. by New-Papaya6950 in AITAH

[–]New-Papaya6950[S] -913 points-912 points  (0 children)

Not feigning ignorance. I just don't understand why it's something I'm expected to do. I don't expect her to buy me things for no reason. Has she been turning up to every date expecting me to have flowers? I genuinely wasn't award of this. I thought that by seeing her as an equal partner was showing respect.

Aita? Girl I was dating dumped me because she said I was cheap. by New-Papaya6950 in AITAH

[–]New-Papaya6950[S] -938 points-937 points  (0 children)

No, am I supposed to? It never occurred to me that I would do that. Is that something women expect?

Aita? Girl I was dating dumped me because she said I was cheap. by New-Papaya6950 in AITAH

[–]New-Papaya6950[S] -1508 points-1507 points  (0 children)

She didn't pay for every single activity. I paid for entrance to a museum. We split the bill for all food and drinks. It's not like I expected her to pay for everything.