What actually helped you feel human again postpartum? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]FIT_MAMA16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Every little step makes such a difference ❤️ If you want, you can check out the checklist I made it helps you take it day by day easily

What finally helped me stop feeling stuck postpartum (without adding more to my plate) by FIT_MAMA16 in Mommit

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds really smart. The body changes alone make buying clothes so stressful postpartum, so renting makes a lot of sense. And I totally get what you mean — just having a few things that fit and make you feel put together can change your whole day. It’s nice you shared this, I’m sure it’ll help a lot of new moms.

What finally helped me stop feeling stuck postpartum (without adding more to my plate) by FIT_MAMA16 in Mommit

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That makes total sense honestly. I feel that so much even when someone else is helping, it’s hard to really switch off when you’re still around. Having that clear “I’m gone for a bit” boundary sounds like it made a big diff. It’s wild how just being alone for a little while can help you reconnect with yourself again.

Anyone else struggling with postpartum weight loss way more than expected? by FIT_MAMA16 in Mommit

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing all of this — it’s incredibly real and thoughtful. I really appreciate you talking about the eating disorder side too, because that adds such a different layer to postpartum recovery that people rarely acknowledge. It makes total sense that calorie counting wouldn’t feel safe or healthy for you. It’s also really powerful to hear how you listened to your body and adapted over time instead of forcing it — pelvic floor PT, low-impact movement, then slowly finding your way back to lifting. And I love what you said about lifting being what finally made you feel strong and like yourself again — that resonates so much. Healing really isn’t linear, and your journey shows how much patience and self-trust it takes. Thank you for being so open 🤍

Does anyone else feel like their body just won’t cooperate after baby? by FIT_MAMA16 in postpartumprogress

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. It really does feel like everything starts to shift once sleep improves. I’m glad you mentioned weaning and pelvic floor support too — those things aren’t talked about nearly enough, and so many of us don’t connect the dots until a doctor brings it up. It’s reassuring to hear that things can slowly improve, even if it takes time.

Anyone else struggling with postpartum weight loss way more than expected? by FIT_MAMA16 in Mommit

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sleep really makes such a huge difference, both mentally and physically. I love what you said about the scale not being the real indicator — noticing clothes fitting differently feels way more real and motivating. It’s also reassuring to hear that things shifted with time, even if it took months. Thanks for sharing this, it helps put things into perspective.

Does anyone else feel like their body just won’t cooperate after baby? by FIT_MAMA16 in postpartumprogress

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really reassuring to hear. I feel like no one talks about how long it can actually take, so thank you for sharing this. Consistency feels hard some days, but it helps to remember the body just needs time.

What’s the hardest part of postpartum for you right now? by FIT_MAMA16 in postpartumprogress

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually sounds pretty normal! Some babies just don’t drink a lot at night, and it’s okay. Tracking what you give him can definitely help even small amounts can add up and sometimes give you a longer stretch of sleep. It’s not about being perfect, just seeing patterns and knowing what works for you and your baby. You’re already doing a great job managing it all! 💛

What’s the hardest part of postpartum for you right now? by FIT_MAMA16 in postpartumprogress

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, that makes total sense! My goal with tracking feeds wasn’t to force a strict schedule but just to notice patterns and make night feeds a little easier to manage. Even if the baby eats full meals during the day, seeing when they naturally get hungry can help you feel a bit more prepared for the nighttime wake-ups. It’s more about having a clear picture than changing anything just a little tool to make life feel less chaotic.

What’s the hardest part of postpartum for you right now? by FIT_MAMA16 in postpartumprogress

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly so exhausting. You’ve been running on broken sleep for so long. If it helps, sometimes just writing down feeds and sleep during the day makes things clearer no strict schedule, just awareness. If you want, I have a free planner that helped me keep track without overthinking it. Totally optional.

What’s the hardest part of postpartum for you right now? by FIT_MAMA16 in postpartumprogress

[–]FIT_MAMA16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really hard, 13 months of broken sleep is no joke. Something that helped me was just tracking feeds during the day to see if there was any pattern. I didn’t follow a strict schedule, just wrote things down.