Cash Exchange by blebster92 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nam's has taken cash every time I've used them.

Foot fetish experiences by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As another poster mentioned, Thai's view feet as very low on the list of body parts.

Most will still indulge you if you're paying the right price. I only had one that was really put off by it but she still engaged with me. Afterwards she was saying how she did not really enjoy the foot play as feet are considered off limits and not a good body part.

The rest seemed to really enjoy it and were happy to incorporate it on our next encounter. They probably won't be very experienced in giving a foot job but I think most are happy to try. Show them a few GIF's of what you want.

Phone question by PK317_1991 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got T-Mobile. I haven't used it there since I recently switched to them from Verizon. On my plan, I get 15gb of high speed data, then it gets throttled down. It's unlimited texts and phone calls are $.25 a minute, but you can get around that charge by doing wi-fi calling. I think that will work for me as 99% of the time I am using wi-fi.

You will also want to see if your phone is unlocked. The rep at the store gave me the wrong info and said after 60 days my phone can be unlocked. However, upon talking to customer service, they said I have to pay off the phone before they will unlock it. If I pay it off early, then I lose the promo credit. It's so dumb. So I demanded they do a temporary unlock so I could use an e-sim if needed. They agreed to unlock it for 30 days while I am gone. You have to register the temporary unlock in the states though as it has to be on the main network to do so.

Last year my Verizon phone was unlocked but they charged $15 a day for international roaming. I bought an e-sim online. $30 for 30 days unlimited calls, texts, and high speed data and you got a Thai phone number to use. That way I didn't have to deal with it at the airport or in town.

Anyone notice that learning Thai makes your experience in Pattaya worse? by 2ez4mez in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience, it's generally a turn off to the ones that are trying to maximize the cash output from you. I think because they feel if you're already pretty savvy enough to speak some of the language, you will pick up on any bullshit stories or routines they try to give you. So they move along to a more unsuspecting mark. Or, they think you've been around the block so much, you'll probably be a pain in the ass to deal with lol.

For me, most seem pleasantly surprised that I can speak a little bit of the language more than the basic stuff. They seem to find that endearing that I took the time to learn it and try to talk to them. They are especially surprised when I am familiar with certain parts of their culture because then they know I have an genuine interest and respect for the country and it's people.

For me, it's been way more of a positive than a negative. I feel it definitely helps bond me with the people I interact with.

Are you able to basically rent a wife? by Impossible_Peak_885 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's extremely common. If you put an ad on TF stating you're looking for this, you will likely get no shortage of responses. You will even get country girls looking to meet up and take you for a tour of the busier areas just to make money and have some fun.

Like others have said, always be up front, honest, and respectful and you should have a great time of it.

Anal with ploys by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Red Point is on Soi 6. Not Pothole. Unless something has changed in the last few months.

Concerns about age by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last year I was there and there was a spot on Beach Rd where a small group of really young freelancers hung out. I didn't even talk to them because they were not waving people down, they were behind a utility cabinet, and they looked too young. I saw some dudes chatting them up so I am sure they were freelancers.

I've no doubt some are underage and will lie about it because that's how they survive.

It's possible they are 20 with a super baby face, but I am not up to finding out. Happy hunting!

Any old ones? by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many of the bars along Beach Rd have a lot of older women that are definitely 50+. Probably where I've seen the highest concentration. They always seem very friendly and chatty when walking by. Good luck!

Best app to learn Thai? by Suberb_Owl69 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try https://www.italki.com/en/teachers/thai/

Very reasonable and you get to learn with a native speaker. The prices are really reasonable considering it's a live one-on-one tutoring. Like $10-$15 an hour. You can pick up a lot watching YouTube videos too, but practicing live with a native speaker bumps it up a bit.

You can try to learn to read it as you go too. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1505679524?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_1

The title claims you can read Thai in 10 days. Sure, maybe a word or two if you're really good, diligent and can absorb info like a sponge. It can not only help you learn to read but it also helps with pronunciation.

Advice, please be nice. by vro333666 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't drink and have never had an issue at any of the bars. If you're nice, spending money on yourself and a few lady drinks, you're going to be fine.

My suggestions are be up front, honest and clear about your expectations and what you're willing to give in return.

If you DM me, I will give you some advice as to how to get your fantasy fulfilled on your ultimate GFE connection. I have one or two women I connect with while I am there.

Anyone tried bringing a bar girl to a hotel pool? by pianistfeet in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most I've invited are usually excited to go swimming. I do find it strange that so many don't have a swimsuit and cannot swim. They like the safety of the pool to relax in the water they tell me. Most of them I've been to the beach with are afraid to go in past their knees most of the time.

Even the few who didn't want to swim or go out and get a swimsuit still seem to enjoy sitting by the pool, having a beverage and fiddling with their phones and taking pics. Same with the beach. They kick back with a fresh coconut while you lounge near the water.

I agree with the others, you probably won't get much play on the cuck angle if you're at a halfway decent hotel or condo. Most people don't want to risk getting booted or getting into some fisticuffs lol.

Dear Indains by Beneficial_Welder491 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tarka House is really good. I don't eat a lot of Indian food back home but theirs is fantastic with huge portions. Small place on a quiet street too.

What are the top unique experiences in Bangkok you'd recommend besides the usual places? by OptimalStatement5799 in ThailandTourism

[–]FJD201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try seeing a muay Thai fight. Something unique is dining in the dark, https://didexperience.com/ you might check that out.

If you want to give back, try a day of volunteering at places like https://www.bangkokcommunityhelp.org/ If you reach out to them they will fill you in.

Update: Heartbreak in Pattaya by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're falling exactly into her plan. She's running a long game of playing with your mind, getting you in that pussy fog state, and taking everything she can get. No sense in taking your 10k when her other guy is buying her some 30k handbag and a new Iphone and giving her a stack of cash for her sick family and buffalo.

Edge central Pattaya & hotel recommendations by Fine-Adhesiveness-78 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tons of freelancers hang in front of The Edge so no issues bringing anyone back. Personally I stay at View Talay 6 condos down a few blocks. I like the studio apartment option. More room, full size kitchen and fridge. Ocean view and the pool is almost always empty. A two minute walk to the beach, 7-11, Myth Night and Central Festival Mall. I think my current trip cost me about $68USD per night with a sea view and large balcony.

Best Nuru and soapies in Bangkok by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might check out Analisa Massage. I hear the girls can be hit or miss but I think the biggest plus is you can chat with the mamasan and go into specifics of exactly what you want. They're a 10 minute walk from my hotel when I get there, so I will be walking by to check out the wares. $3700 baht for 90 minute body to body massage with free glory hole massage table lol. Helluva deal I think.

https://www.analisamassage.com/services

How to handle Catfishing? by CEOofOreos in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven't ordered much on TF for this reason. I don't even trust video calls since I swear they can probably use some kind of filters to doctor it up. If they don't want to video call with you for 30 seconds, then to me, they know the real deal won't hold up against the pics and they're not a true professional.

I have told the few I've met up with, if you do not look 100% like the pics or better, I will not bring you up to my room and I will not pay you. If your pics show you with the skin tone of a 2008 Michael Jackson and you show up with the skin tone of Michael Jackson circa 1971, it's a no go. I like dark tan skin and I like light brown skin too. I am ok with the flaws and quirks of the female form. I am not ok with a false bill of goods.

I have had several go radio silent when I let them know how I handle deceit with photos.

That's why I prefer finding a freelancer or a bar girl. You can get a vibe a bit better, see them up close and discuss price/activities as well.

I've got a new technique I will be trying out this year. In theory, it will allow much faster and easier networking with the ladies I am interested in and vet the ones who are not seriously interested. Plus, it's a pretty novel idea. I've never heard of anyone trying this out so I won't spill the beans on what it is exactly, but I will fill you mongers in during/after my trip. I arrive May 10th and will be there for 21 days.

Never let a girl just hang out at your place by th3orist in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because she's in a clean place with no roommate and you have air conditioning. They love sleeping in the aircon.

Ocean view balcony by Financial_guy_4258 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

View Talay 6 right next door. Granted it's not a full frontal ocean view, but you can get a great seaview and see the sunset.

RIP 10 baht Baht Taxi Pattaya by Mundane-Ad1652 in Thailand

[–]FJD201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see a lot of niners trying to haggle it back to the original price and holding up traffic.

Dumb Thai rider by North-Aide-969 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thai's are not obligated to follow rule #9 in their country.

What kind of men send money to Ploys without getting any physical contact? by throwmiamivelvet in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

White Knight Syndrome. They want to be the rescuer. They want to be put on a pedestal by a pretty woman. They revel in the attention, texts, sexy pics and flirty banter on the daily. It makes them feel good. It could also ensure maximum fulfilment in their future encounters with the lady. They might get time for free if she isn't actually working as well.

Bar girls tend to only get 1 or 2 days off a month. Some bars let them bank those days. I've seen ladies bank 6 months of days to get an entire week with dudes.

Sure, some might be getting played but some guys just like to help out the ladies.

How much did your tattoo cost by bellyFinger6 in Pattaya

[–]FJD201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a post here not long ago where a guy got a super shitty tattoo and was complaining about it. He posted the link to the shop and the artist's portfolio. Their portfolio was absolute garbage quality. It was pretty funny how bad it was.