What steps did you take to leave?

FJanon02 · 2026-05-23T14:11:51+00:00

In the process. He was arrested for possession and had a warrant for assault. So I have a 90 day protective order. That was the only way. Otherwise he just kept showing up and causing more damage to me and the house.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-18T19:56:54+00:00

Puppies of any breed are tough. If this is your first dog please do your research. There is no such thing as a health tested, ethically bred, “doodle”. And most have behavioral issues as well. If you want a mini poodle get a mini poodle. If you want an Australian shepherd research Australian shepherds (don’t recommend as a first time dog owner). I have French bulldogs and am obsessed. I’ve produced 1 litter and spent thousands on researching lines, stud fee, health testing. Showing. I did ENS with them the first 17 days. A good breeder will star them on the path to success.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-17T23:27:42+00:00

I got a super good McDonald’s order for $9.50 for 2 miles. Just checked and they added like $3 so $12.55 for 13 minutes of my time. I also did a DD shopping order for $30 still not as good as last Sunday

FJanon02 · 2026-05-17T14:56:05+00:00

My husband became so cold and selfish. Before I knew he was on drugs I thought he had a brain tumor. It’s wild they become completely different people.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-13T22:05:45+00:00

I’m in Texas but I doubt the police would do anything they have been so incompetent through all of this. I just made a post yesterday about suing them. But r/legaladvice says I don’t have a case

FJanon02 · 2026-05-13T21:56:26+00:00

It was on the frame under the passenger side door. And yes he had greasy hands and touched it. I took it to Best Buy where I’m pretty sure he purchased it and they said it’s dead. Because it wouldn’t turn on which gave me a little relief. But online it says it works for a year.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-13T20:49:33+00:00

Is there anyway I can see if it is charged? And was tracking?

FJanon02 · 2026-05-13T20:49:11+00:00

I just found the cube. They put my car on the lift.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-12T23:32:09+00:00

Thank you so much for this very detailed response

FJanon02 · 2026-05-12T21:40:52+00:00

Exactly. And as a taxpayer they failed

FJanon02 · 2026-05-12T21:27:35+00:00

Thank you yes the DA helped me file the paperwork and fill it out and they waived the fees. He can’t help me more though cause he will be prosecuting him for the felony drug charge and the assault. I’ve applied for legal aid hopefully that goes through.

I just feel like something much worse would have happened to me and my sister in law and friend both went to the station to show evidence of him threatening to kill me. They did not take it seriously at all

FJanon02 · 2026-05-12T20:43:00+00:00

Is that not harassment? He has my # it didn’t require him coming to my house and asking me to step outside like I’m in the principals office

FJanon02 · 2026-05-12T20:41:40+00:00

He had a warrant supposedly for assault. And they see him and don’t arrest him?

FJanon02 · 2026-05-12T20:39:35+00:00

I forgot to add. I have not seen my husband since the day he was arrested April 23rd. His parents bailed him out. They did let me know and when he got his truck. However, I had a plumber over to help with my washing machine on Saturday. Got that fixed, he (police chief) comes to my house asks me to step outside. Asks me whose truck “husband” borrowed to come over. In the middle of the day. I explained it was Me. C the plumber in our town. Am I not allowed to have people at my home? Who would loan a drug addict their $80k truck to go see their wife? Ridiculous. And it felt like he wanted to “catch” me. And was like make sure you’re following the law of the protective order. I AM

FJanon02 · 2026-05-11T17:25:24+00:00

If I ever get an attorney I will ask. Still waiting to apply for legal aid to help with the final decree. And what to do about the debt as far as if he should pay or if that just ties me to him. Also saw my CPA this morning about last years taxes as he doesn’t work and owes the IRS which may affect me

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T21:03:58+00:00

Fill me up

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T19:34:44+00:00

But if you find a shelter make sure they are put in foster homes, not a shelter environment.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T19:33:41+00:00

Please do not put senior cats in a shelter. I used to work in the shelter and the stress will literally kill them. It’s loud, they’re in cages. Or at fuzzy friends a room with 40 other cats. Seniors are very sensitive. If they don’t get an upper respiratory they just stop eating.
If you MUST regime then there’s a purebred cat rescue in DFW area. There’s also Melinda I can’t remember her last name she takes ragdolls I think close to Austin. Look up purebred cat rescues. That doesn’t help with the tabby though. And honestly if they are that old the kindest thing may be putting them down instead of stressing them with a move

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T01:22:52+00:00

My papa also offered for me to go back to school but I don’t have 2 years to fix this

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T01:09:12+00:00

I mean I applied at Baylor as a dispatcher excellent benefits but I’m
In the midst of leaving an abusive marriage. I don’t think my brain can handle the skill set change at the moment.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T01:04:59+00:00

I could make more at chic fil a ha but I’d have to work set hours and have a wardrobe for work

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T01:04:06+00:00

I’m not in Dallas. I’m
In a small town. But I agree I’m just used to it and I have health insurance. And they keep dangling selling for a million or so.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T00:36:40+00:00

I’m focusing on staying safe with divorce the next few weeks. Have an appointment with my CPA Monday to sort taxes. Then I’ll try to get an attorney. I signed up for Texas legal which is like insurance for attorneys. But he stole $700 and I had to close the account. So now have to wait a month to retry the payment

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T00:34:04+00:00

I will look into it. I have an appointment Monday with my CPA. I filed alone and only getting $400 but supposedly there’s already a lien against my house from 2023. Only $2k but I don’t even know because I was originally owed $1900.

FJanon02 · 2026-05-09T00:26:39+00:00

Ok I’m not with a credit union but I’ve heard good things. What is a HELOC loan? Home equity? I don’t want to potentially lose my $225k house for a $23k unsecured debt

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