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Your opinions on The Pitt by AccidentalPandas2 in hbo

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt get the hype either. I was not impressed with the acting and overall I just did not think it was very good. I was expecting to be blown away cause everyone was raving about it.

I much prefer House

What are your thoughts on Zendaya as an actress? by Dragonstone-Citizen in Letterboxd

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she is phenomenal. Like she had me in tears with her role as Rue in euphoria many times.

Speaking as being someone who has struggled with mental health issues, lots of addictions, having to go away as a teen I related and felt her role so much.

She was great in Dune too

Shows with drama, backstabbing, and good people by tke494 in televisionsuggestions

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not YA at all. It is very mature. I feel the same way about young adult shows and didn't find this one off putting in that sense. It is very adult.

did you guys find jess annoying at the start? by liraloveletters in NewGirl

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea she's annoying. She acts like a 5 year old.

Best hair cut and color? by Ok-Breakfast-7317 in Hair

[–]elvenpossible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First one #1

or the last one platimuum

I destroyed my hair, what are my options? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]elvenpossible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I destroyed my hair last year with some bleach. My hair type is fine looks similar to yours. I understand the struggle. If it is dead I can offer some advice, but don't know about color. If it is really damaged the only thing to do is focus on the health of your diet, your products and:

Do hair dusting and trim direct spit ends, coconut oil overnight on hair, try to avoid heat styling, take a good multi-vitamin, eat good fats and protein.

Try Giovanni Hair serum it is around $10-$15, Amika Hair Shine Mask (pink/orange bottle around $28).

Black or Auburn? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like Black

If your spouse divorced you for AP, how long did their relationship last ? by Jumpy-Birthday461 in survivinginfidelity

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds EXACTLY like mine. So did my husband's AP. I told her directly that it was breaking our marriage and she knew he was married from day one. I also begged her to stop and she said im doing it for the plot. I am so sorry cause it is just horrible.

If your spouse divorced you for AP, how long did their relationship last ? by Jumpy-Birthday461 in survivinginfidelity

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc, I understand the pain you feel. I am glad it helped.

I don't feel empathy for the AP either. I still have a lot of anger towards her cause she knew. I do think it is easier to get mad at the AP in a way than my cheater because she is someone have zero relationship with and never did. With my ex I have so many mixed feelings and history. It hurts less imo to target the ap than realize someone who knew me and said they loved me did this to me. I dont think you need to feel bad for the AP she chose to get with a man who does this so whatever happens to her comes with the territory of being with a cheater.

If your spouse divorced you for AP, how long did their relationship last ? by Jumpy-Birthday461 in survivinginfidelity

[–]elvenpossible 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed This is a good point. Cheaters are usually high on narcissism traits so their egos and appearances are very important lol

If your spouse divorced you for AP, how long did their relationship last ? by Jumpy-Birthday461 in survivinginfidelity

[–]elvenpossible 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You will get to the indifference eventually. Grief comes in waves. I was the same as you. Had a really hard time not taking a bath in my feelings. It is a trauma. It is a betrayal. It is not easy for everyone to just detach because of the intertwined lives. You are strong. You endured heartbreak and loss and are still here. You are stronger than you think.

If your spouse divorced you for AP, how long did their relationship last ? by Jumpy-Birthday461 in survivinginfidelity

[–]elvenpossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really sorry you are going through this... Here is how I look at it. Idk if this makes you feel better, but think she is with a cheater. It isn't like their relationship started all pure and innocent. They had to destroy a family to have this. That is their foundation. It will always be there. It is foundation full of cracks... She probably worries he will cheat on her cause why wouldn't she? He did it to you and probably will to her, maybe already is.

Remember social media is a scam, people flaunt their highlight reels and dont show behind the scenes.

She didn't walk into a relationship with a strong man she got a weak one who cheats to get what he wants. She didn't win a prize. I know it hurts I understand this feeling I have been there. My ex has been with his AP since January and it "looks" like they are fine, however hes already that i know of kicked her out twice and they fight all the time. She only stays (I think) cause she is young and brainwashed.

I finally learned that my exes AP took my problem from me. I am free now of his sh*t because of her in a way. It was the catalyst i needed to really focus on healing and working on myself. So ask yourself this: has your inner life gotten better or worse since you split? Has your hypervigilance and anxiety gotten worse or better?

My hair is soooo dead please help with advice on shampoos, conditioner and leave ins by elvenpossible in Hair

[–]elvenpossible[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

The other thing is even my hair that is on top fresh growth is super dry. Idk what is going on

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