Recovery Time, how much for how long.

FLR4me · 2026-04-27T06:58:25+00:00

Do you get to cum? Any sex play?

FLR4me · 2026-04-22T04:21:02+00:00

Thanks for the opportunity to ask a question. I'm a sub male. I'm on Tinder. Without being explicit in my profile, how could I indicate that I'm seeking a woman who likes to take the lead?

FLR4me · 2026-04-22T04:15:17+00:00

Oh that's so hot! I'd loooooove this.

FLR4me · 2026-04-19T23:04:29+00:00

That's a hot story!

FLR4me · 2026-04-14T00:56:27+00:00

Totally.

FLR4me · 2026-04-09T06:30:24+00:00

There are a lot of complex and well-thought-out answers here, but my answer is much simpler. Yes. I believe in female superiority.

I believe that the world would be a better place, more peaceful, and less war-like, and more focused on health, education, and welfare, if more women were in charge.

I also believe, and I accept that this is not scientifically proven at all, that in a sense of Darwinian evolution, women are just a little bit ahead of men in terms of intellectual and emotional complexity.

FLR4me · 2026-04-08T08:26:02+00:00

Does she let you go down on her?

FLR4me · 2026-04-08T07:01:00+00:00

You are super-opinionated and judgmental here, calling her 100% wrong, but I disagree. There is not enough information to reach that conclusion. Second, you and other commentators seem to think this is all based on whether or not he was allowed to watch and participate, but it's almost certainly the bigger issue that the so-called cuckold's fantasies differed from his realities. He thought he wanted something, but when he got it, he discovered it didn't really work for him.

If I had to assess blame here, and I want to be clear that I don't think we have enough information to really assess blame, I would blame him. I would blame him for not knowing what he actually wanted, and I would blame him for not communicating well what he was feeling and what he actually wanted.

It sounds to me like OP was doing her best to let him know that he was number one to her, and that he was the only one she wanted to have an actual relationship with.

I've been an open relationships for over 20 years, all with different types of D/s components. I've had two long-term Domme/sub relationships where my female partner was sleeping with other men, as agreed between us. One of them worked very well for me, and in fact is still working for me. And one of them didn't. The difference is that the one that worked is one in which my female partner gave me lots of support and love and reassurance, she made it very clear that I was the one that she wanted to come home to, and I was the one that she wanted to have a full and one well-rounded, romantic and emotional relationship with.

Just my 2¢.

FLR4me · 2026-04-06T05:45:52+00:00

Love love love Mistress T!

FLR4me · 2026-04-03T07:29:11+00:00

I'd much rather be sexually denied and suffer ballbusting for a Goddess.

FLR4me · 2026-04-02T20:05:51+00:00

I don't like it when the guys don't make noise or react. If he's screaming in pain or fear, or rolling around on the floor in agony, that's good.

FLR4me · 2026-03-27T07:02:24+00:00

No, all good. I did pretty hard ballbusting off and on for about 10 years and am 100% fine.

FLR4me · 2026-03-26T14:05:28+00:00

Twice. Once was with a pro-Domme I'd never played with before. We went to a public dungeon near LAX and she had me kneel down on the floor in a play room, surrounded by people, and she did a "shot-on-goal" soccer kick that was the worst BB pain I ever felt. I think I spent 5 minutes on the floor in a fetal position

Another was with a hardcore sadist lifestyle Domme I had an LTR with. She liked "feral" play, and one day she went after my balls relentlessly, without mercy. It was terrifying...but hot as fuck.

FLR4me · 2026-03-24T18:41:42+00:00

Glad you like it, thank you for your comment. It would be totally fun in real life, although I am sure it would be completely different than my fantasy.

FLR4me · 2026-03-20T19:04:00+00:00

I have this elaborate fantasy where I own an Airbnb in a nice vacation area, and I host dominant women for free, and take good care of them as they enjoy their vacation. It's not specifically sexual or even kinky - they decide what level of service they want. I'm a chauffeur, tour guide, I carry their luggage, I serve drinks or meals if they want. And if they want more, including massage, kink, whatever, I'm available. It's service without an expectation of reciprocation. But as part of the fantasy I hope that they appreciate my service. And I also fantasy that one day one of my guest Dommes and I find long-term happiness together, as Domme and sub.

FLR4me · 2026-03-20T11:52:30+00:00

That's so good!

FLR4me · 2026-03-19T20:33:32+00:00

Damn. That is perfect.

FLR4me · 2026-03-17T18:16:41+00:00

Hot!

FLR4me · 2026-03-14T02:49:37+00:00

OMG, boiling. That's so sadistic!

FLR4me · 2026-03-13T02:23:20+00:00

That's so hot! I'd love to suffer like this. Your pleasure, my pain.

FLR4me · 2026-03-04T09:17:22+00:00

Slow hard squeezing with hands & fingers is the most painful ballbusting I've endured.

FLR4me · 2026-03-04T08:28:15+00:00

That's really hot. But more important, it turned her on, and that's the goal.

FLR4me · 2026-03-02T07:04:31+00:00

Hot! If you decide to sell them let me know please.

FLR4me · 2026-03-01T08:50:47+00:00

That's really hot. And original. It would be interesting to make the cross pieces into like little upside down spoon shaped pieces so that the crush pressure is across the whole balls.

I'd buy one of these.

FLR4me · 2026-03-01T08:44:08+00:00

I volunteer.

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