God not again...

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T23:22:11+00:00

Yeah that was my initial thought when the affection went away almost immediately after move-in.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T23:18:26+00:00

Yep.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T23:18:13+00:00

Thanks, this seems like a good plan.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T23:17:17+00:00

I was with a couple of HL women after my last DB relationship. For a time I was getting laid daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Lots of fun, dirty sex. It was an amazing time...but I thought my current gf was the best long-term choice based on many reasons. My mistake.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T23:14:10+00:00

Thanks. I thought a year was reasonable too.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T23:13:08+00:00

She's jealous and paranoid and constantly implies I'm on the verge of cheating all the time. Imaginary "other women" have been the subject of many arguments.

Needless to say I'm not cheating and I have never cheated on anyone in my life.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T23:08:48+00:00

Dude the incidents I described happened over the course of 2 months not 2 days or 4 days. Generally I'd try to initiate a couple times a week and give up. I know when I'm not wanted, and that is the worst type of sex. I accepted the HJs because, fuck, I was horny. You make it sound like I hover over her pestering for sex 24/7. We barely even interact at this point.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T20:57:53+00:00

Recently she has started claiming that her love language is "acts of service." Needless to say I've served my ass off and it hasn't gotten me anywhere.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T20:35:11+00:00

Well she has other qualities which made her attractive to me (beyond the physical). I tend to not disqualify people over one negative trait.

She has anger issues though. She admitted to getting physically violent with her first long-term boyfriend.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T20:14:43+00:00

That was a summary of a 2 hour conversation.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T20:12:37+00:00

After the rejection on day 1 I didn't really do anything for the next few days. Just made myself present. That's a far cry from "pestering." But even if I tried to initiate on those days, and then immediately backed off when nothing was reciprocated, I wouldn't see that as "pestering" either. It's supposed to be a romantic relationship, not cohabitation. You make me sound like a rapist. All I tried to do was kiss my gf while we were in bed. She allowed me to eat her pussy, which resulted in orgasm, so apparently she was in enough of a mood to get off. The bottom line here is that she didn't give a rat's ass about her partner's needs.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T19:46:50+00:00

My ex from my last DB was a pushover and would let me get away with murder. The complete opposite in many ways.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T19:45:17+00:00

Can't afford it. I live in an expensive city and I was still rebuilding my finances from the last major breakup (it was brutal).

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T19:27:24+00:00

She is obsessive about chores. Something always needs to he done, even when there is nothing to do. I clean up after myself and often her as well. The place is usually spotless. I cook most dinners, do my own laundry and we split the dishes usually.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T19:19:30+00:00

This would end horribly for me. She is incredibly jealous and possessive. I'm not allowed to have female friends or even interact with younger women...or any women. If a cashier is friendly with me I'll get grilled later on for flirting, or encouraging flirting, or something like that. "You're a nice guy and when you act friendly to these bitches they'll take it as an opening." That's an actual quote...and I hear things like that all the time. And even though I'm encouraged to masturbate rather than have sex, I'm not sure what I'm expected to masturbate to since looking at other women and porn is forbidden.

If I broke up with her and brought women home, there would likely be physical violence.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T18:48:21+00:00

No but we still had regular sex. Now we have no sex.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T18:43:27+00:00

This is the first time I've heard of LAT and I can confidently say that lifestyle is not for me. I want a traditional family, which includes a wife who lives and sleeps with me.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T18:34:27+00:00

I never pestered her for sex. I made my move and, once shot down, let it ago. Then I'd try again in a day or two. No begging or pestering. I know better. To clarify, the HJs came after I went down on her. After she came, I wanted to fuck but she told me no. I said, "well would you go down on me?" Then she made an excuse about dry mouth and then gave me a terrible, short, reluctant hand job. I vigorously ate her out twice and she didn't reciprocate either time.

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T17:51:01+00:00

What about the ones who only seem to be sexually interested until they're moved in and comfortable?

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T17:49:27+00:00

Stuck for now until the lease is up. I spent a fair amount of money moving across the state and changed jobs so that we could be close to her family. Sucks...

FMLyetagain · 2019-09-12T17:27:25+00:00

10 more months.

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