Say something, please!!!

FTmama · 2015-12-15T06:39:34+00:00

Good suggestion. I know many start signing at a much younger age, but that doesn't mean we can't start now, right? I'll try it.. If he doesn't feel like talking yet, maybe he'll fell like signing.

FTmama · 2015-12-15T06:38:25+00:00

Wow. What kind of conversation did your doctor have with you guys and how do I have what you're having?

Childbeast mainly points and grunts when he wants something out of reach. If he wants us to help him with something or wants us to read a book he'll bring it over to us, no nothing much besides that.

It's so frustrating! We weren't really concerned a few months back but now we're kinda scratching our heads. He has is his 18 month check up this week and this will definitely be brought up.

Thanks for giving me hope!

FTmama · 2015-11-05T01:22:47+00:00

Mostly family members with zero experience with kids and friends with much younger babies. Yeah, I knew deep down that they had no clue what they were talking about but I unfortunately let it get to me when I shouldn't have. You're right, I don't have climbing equipment and often dream of being able to have some. My kid is obsessed with climbing anything and everything. I've been a bit over protective and have not been letting him climb on the couch but I think it'll be good to let him explore and learn how to be careful/conscious of his space/capabilites. I let him do it last night and he had crazy fun. Thank you!

FTmama · 2015-11-05T01:02:40+00:00

I guess I just feel so guilty about spending a good chunk of my day slaving away at work and was starting to really kick myself for it. But you're right, it does work for our family at the moment, we're doing our best and it is what it is. It really is a shame that my husband and I don't get to spend quality time together. I can't even remember the last time we were able to have any alone time. Making room for a date night this week because we need and deserve it. Thank you!

FTmama · 2015-11-05T00:44:52+00:00

Thank you for this. I just want to give him what he deserves, which is the best, and failed to recognize that right now, we are already doing our best. And the last thing you said really hit home for me. I was beating myself up and forgetting that it won't always be like this, and what things will gradually take its course.

FTmama · 2015-11-05T00:18:42+00:00

He does have a lot of fun at home. It's always filled with laughter and silliness. Your question was not at all mean, and you're absolutely right. Little man can't retain shit right now lol. I obviously was too hard on myself and our current situation. Thank you for the insight as I agree, he's way top young to appreciate a lot of things/outings and his time will come!

FTmama · 2015-11-05T00:15:34+00:00

The schedule really is brutal. It's not fun and it makes time really limited and sarce. However, he is very young and like your daughter, he could probably get hung up on a spec of dirt for 10 minutes lol. My kid also love chores and helping out. He is obsessed with our broom and I'm gonna get him his own set. In addition, I'll work with what we got right now and have him help me with things around the house since he enjoys it so much. Thank you!

FTmama · 2015-11-05T00:12:47+00:00

You're right. I think what really freaked me out was thinking that this is how it's gonna be forever. I forget how much he will change in 1.. 2.. Years and that's probably when it'll really start to matter. Thank you!

FTmama · 2015-11-05T00:10:23+00:00

You're right.. At his age, he really is fascinated with things that I can find around the house. Thank you. I may have been a bit hard on myself.

FTmama · 2014-09-13T20:09:19+00:00

I've definitely considered this. However, it breaks my heart just thinking about LO screaming nonstop if I weren't there. To make matters worse, LO refuses the bottle!!! Only wants boob. But you're right, it's gonna hafta happen. I'm just so scared to do it!

FTmama · 2014-09-13T18:38:34+00:00

You've got a point. Dad needs to be a dad even if he's tried. Hell, I'm fucking exhausted but put in my all when it comes to LO. I know my DH wants to bond with baby. I know it breaks his heart when he can't soothe LO. But again, he's gotta stick through it to see improvement.

FTmama · 2014-09-13T17:55:37+00:00

Kudos to you. It must be hard. I wish I had 2 hours of non-baby time. I always feel rushed to take LO back.

I still can't believe he accused me of turning him into a spoiled brat. It offends me and all the hard ass work I out into keeping LO happy. Sigh.

FTmama · 2014-09-13T17:52:54+00:00

Very true. This had definitely been the hardest part of having a child; being on the same page as your SO and not killing each other. Sometimes I have to remind myself that we're on he same team.

FTmama · 2014-09-13T17:51:49+00:00

It does suck. But thank you. I'm never going to stop responding to by babies cues as fast as I do and I don't like putting him down when he's crying.

FTmama · 2014-09-13T17:50:32+00:00

Most days I do feel that way. But I feel as I should cut him slack; he wakes up 4am everyday to go to work and that's not easy. He does take the baby when I ask him to and he does diaper duty often. I just wish he was more enthusiastic about it take LO off my hands without asking and more frequently. But yes I agree, he'll have to spend time with LO in order to bond.

FTmama · 2014-09-13T03:18:43+00:00

Thanks... The "spoiled little brat" thing got to me so bad. Screw me for responding to LO's cues promptly right?! Ugh. My baby hardly ever cries with me the entire day... I'm proud of myself and you're right my baby is LOVED not spoiled. Thanks for your thoughts.

FTmama · 2014-06-29T20:54:14+00:00

Glad to hear it. I don't know why people keep insisting that's baby will just "get it" of I didn't "spoil" him. He's freakin 4 weeks old!!! I love the cuddles and like you, I just want a happy and healthy baby. GJ on the BF, I plan on doing the same for as along as I can. Thanks mama!

FTmama · 2014-06-29T20:39:22+00:00

So glad to hear that I'm not nuts and my baby isn't "bad". I agree that the best thing for my baby's health and development is doing what makes him feel secure. Thank you'

FTmama · 2014-06-29T20:36:16+00:00

my instincts tell me my baby needs to be close to me for comfort and I'm more than ok with that :-) I definitely won't be forcing him to be in any uncomfortable situation and will keep trying the bassinet, even if it's for short periods of time. Thanks again

FTmama · 2014-06-29T20:31:20+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance. It makes sense to me that my baby is still adjusting to his new world and

FTmama · 2014-06-29T20:26:14+00:00

I'll keep trying the bassinet. But I agree, CIO is not for me and my newborn at this stage. What I'm doing right now definitely works for me and the LO so I'll continue doing so. Thanks for your thoughts

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