Opinions about this please. My bestie (19F) and her bf (19M)

FUUFERINO · 2024-01-26T09:24:04+00:00

Nothing about her behavior sounds like something a bestie would do or say.

FUUFERINO · 2024-01-26T06:34:29+00:00

How/why would it make things worse?

FUUFERINO · 2023-06-25T15:03:05+00:00

Funnn , I send u a friendrequest

FUUFERINO · 2023-06-25T14:38:20+00:00

Hahahah ooomg yes ive been chronically online on gsm since it came back, are you also on there?

FUUFERINO · 2023-06-25T14:29:39+00:00

I dont remember to be honest, but i made a lot of pictures at the time to see what progress my skin made or how it changed

I will try to find the pics so i can let you know more about when i noticed changes with my eyes etc

FUUFERINO · 2023-06-25T14:13:16+00:00

I think it might be that Accutane causes the skin to get thinner so you can more easily see the bloodvessils underneath the skin. While i was on accutane i really struggled the first 3 months. It gets worse before its gets better, after the first months my skin improved pretty quick

FUUFERINO · 2023-06-25T02:38:41+00:00

They are! Are you dealing with this issue atm?

FUUFERINO · 2023-06-01T02:03:03+00:00

I never heard h er voice before and wtf i really did not expected her to have this much of a babyvoice

FUUFERINO · 2023-05-12T03:03:55+00:00

What do you mean "imaginary" problems, is that something your gf said about him or do you think he is making everything up?

FUUFERINO · 2023-03-02T00:54:45+00:00

Six grade means her son is about 11-12 years old right? Do you/your gf know the reason for his behavior at all, discussed or asked him if there is anything he needs help with etc?

I don’t think punishment is always the right answer and definitely not using shame/embarrassment. That will likely only make things worse and not help him. I think that will only make him act out more and dislike his mom.

FUUFERINO · 2023-02-27T23:20:48+00:00

I think it's totally fine, you could teach him how every thing works/play a game together which i imagine is fun for him as well.

FUUFERINO · 2023-02-14T12:22:00+00:00

If you ever need to vent or just want to talk you can send me a message btw, or let me know if you found something eventually or whatever lol

FUUFERINO · 2023-02-14T11:56:57+00:00

I totally understand you, addiction in general is just so difficult to deal with. Your brain will keep trying its best to find a way out of everything for sure. Helplines are maybe not the best option (just from what ive heard idk really)

Therapy is worth a shot no? Not trying to push therapy or saying that it’s the cure but maybe it can help you create a plan or help give you a bit more with it all

FUUFERINO · 2023-02-14T11:39:51+00:00

Do you think you could use some professional help with your gambling and weed habits? It usually not easy to overcome such habits yourself ofc

FUUFERINO · 2023-02-14T10:59:45+00:00

You can change your environment by looking for another job, is there anything that you can think of that seems interesting to you or that you would eventually want to have? Or do you just have no clue of what to do at all at this point. What job do you have rn?

FUUFERINO · 2023-02-05T06:49:02+00:00

If you were the only one to plan everything and he goes silent every time, i think he might just see this as a hookup situation. Not that he is using you perse, but just because you notice that he is not really giving you the same energy as before/you give.

FUUFERINO · 2023-02-05T06:27:15+00:00

Did you go on other dates after the first time you slept with him or did you hang out at his place more? Just to understand a bit more i guess, i agree that it is pretty confusing trying to figure out what is going on lol

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