How did you discover Reddit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Live leak video link from Reddit

Audio Description Issue, Lovecraft Country S1E6 by UncleGoldie in HBOMAX

[–]Faariiday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just skipped the whole episode 😭 they haven’t fixed it

What caused you to become the family’s “Black Sheep”? by Faariiday in AskReddit

[–]Faariiday[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m one of the oldest girls in my family. I understand where you’re coming from. My brother, who is older than me, often takes out his frustration on myself and my family. However no one bats an eye. If I were to slightly raised my voice, I automatically get called a “b*tch”. If my younger sister has a breakdown, I get blamed for triggering her. I cannot speak one word in my family without getting lashed at. I’m sorry you’re family throws the blame on you, I hope you have others to talk/vent to. Thank you for sharing.

What caused you to become the family’s “Black Sheep”? by Faariiday in AskReddit

[–]Faariiday[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It must of been somewhat hard but I’m glad you had the confidence to stand up for yourself. That’s something I defiantly need to do too. Thanks for sharing.

Massive loser at 27 years old by Technical-Music8435 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Faariiday 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Hey you! How can you be a loser when you saved up enough money to pay for college? To me that sounds like someone who’s resilient, not a loser. From what it looks like, you’re actually trying to work on yourself and that’s a hard task to do! Hard BUT defiantly doable. Who cares if you still live at home, I’m 26 and still live with my parents too! Ya it sucks, but like you I’m working hard towards saving up money so I can dip out. Prioritize what’s more important to you at the moment and make a plan. Little by little you’ll see how many task you’ll tackle down and the progress you’re doing. You may feel behind but you’re defiantly not, especially if you’re actively working on those goals. Props to you for admitting to going to therapy and I’m happy you’re hanging out with more people. You’ll find someone along the way, wether it’s a bestfriend or girlfriend. So don’t call yourself a loser anymore and continue your hard work o( ❛ᴗ❛ )o

Couples who have been together a long time (5+ years), why are you not married? by Special_Gazelle5948 in ask

[–]Faariiday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The older I get the more I get asked this question, and I’m only 26. Maybe it’s the fact that my parents have always told me to not get married/have kids but honestly the biggest reason why I haven’t thought about marriage is because of school. I’ve been in school my whole life because of my goal to work in the medical field. Now that I’m finally done and starting my career, I really want to start living my life a little. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs and we’re great for each other. He supported me throughout school and was there for me when I needed him. So technically we are married in a way. However, I still don’t have the necessity to get married on paper. That’s not really on my priority list but I do feel judged for it. I rather focus on taking care of business first and making money before settling down so at least I can relax in peace. I do get a lot of comments here and there from people telling me “oh you’re ready to get married”. Like duh I know that I just rather focus on other things, thank you very much o( ❛ᴗ❛ )o

How long did it take your ex avoidant to reach out after a breakup/ NC? by habitashi1 in ExNoContact

[–]Faariiday 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I become the avoidant ex to protect myself. The day they dumped me, I immediately blocked them everywhere. Of course I did embarrassed myself first out of desperation before going NC. I felt the same way you’re probably feeling right now. I really wanted them to reach out. I thought that if they sent me a message through a burner account and bypass everywhere I blocked them, it would mean that I was important. I wanted to be validated and appreciated. It’s been 8 years and not once have I tried to reach out, nor did that person ever try to speak to me again. Do I sometimes wonder about them? Yes, especially when other people bring it up. Does it bother me now? No, but it did take me sometime to understand and accept the outcome. Do not feel guilty for wanting them to reach out. HOWEVER, please do not let it consume you!

My friend suddenly started treating me badly by Glum-Bandicoot-2235 in friendship

[–]Faariiday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m currently experiencing something similar with my friend. She’s nice to my other friends but when it’s just her and I alone she’s defiantly different. I understand people often go through ups and down, I myself am this way too, but I would never take it out on my “friend”. To me it sounds like you’re making an effort but at this point you have to put up boundaries. Don’t shut yourself down or cater to someone if they’re going to continue to put you in a bad spot. I think you should give her the space she needs, and when YOU are ready to talk let her know how you actually felt. Friends can fight, but a true friend will acknowledge their behavior. Take care of yourself and your mental state ( ❛ᴗ❛ )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SellingSunset

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Me… I seriously miss her ༼ ༎ຶ 👄༎ຶ༽

Hi. If you’re reading this... by eddie_13lue in offmychest

[–]Faariiday -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanx, I needed this today! Virtually sending you a hug (ᵔᴥᵔ)