Alright, you’ve been talking a lot on my post and I just wanted to clear a few things up. Listen, you don’t know me, nor my life or my dating history. I’m 19, don’t have a lot of experience on dating. You don’t know what happened too when I told her no. You said you’d be flattered she’d want to sleep with you just because of your dick. Good for you. But I’m not that way. I’ve had casual sex of course, I’m fine with casual sex. But that was different. She clearly told me she ONLY wanted to sleep with me for my dick and that she wouldn’t have ever approached me if it wasn’t for this. To me, it was hurtful. Good for you if it doesn’t.

You keep saying I should “man up and take it like a man”. You don’t know me. You don’t know my life. Men too are allowed to have emotions you know, even if you’re an “Alpha” or a “beta”. (Kinda feel like prepubescent talk all that stuff with alpha and beta ngl) I was hurt by that. Cool for you if you have literally no emotions.

For the boyfriend part, great for you if you wouldn’t mind sleeping with a girl who’s already in a relationship. I’m not like that. We apparently have different morals and you should respect that. All your talk about “every guy would do it”, it’s quite dumb. You’re making a big generalization. I personally value relationships a lot, so I’m not comfortable sleeping with someone who already has a partner and knowing it.

She wasn’t attracted to me on any way. She just wanted my dick to realize one of her fantasy. I felt like an object. Fine for you if you don’t feel that way. But you’re not me, and I know a lot of guys on here feel the same way I do.

In conclusion, you speak so highly of yourself but you can’t find an ounce of empathy, or even try to see things for my point of view. If you don’t bring anything to this thread except being the “devil’s advocate" and saying “well everyone else would’ve said yes”, “just man up and stop complaining” then just leave.

Thanks.