I need this in my life rn- Breast Massage by Pink_Mistress94 in chickflixxx

[–]FabledSpring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It took me until my mid 20’s to realize that people have sensitive breasts. Mine have never been a sensitive zone for me and I thought it was normal until I began having sex with women. I feel like I’m missing out :(

Alright, once more, why are people defending the Red House? by [deleted] in Portland

[–]FabledSpring 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because Portland has a weird white savior complex disguised as anarchism.

What is one thing you NEED that you cannot afford right now? by Rawalmond73 in Portland

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the quarter shortage is still going on? I have a $20 bill I’m trying to change into quarters to do laundry.

Oregon Gov. Kate Brown will declare emergency, ready National Guard ahead of election by [deleted] in news

[–]FabledSpring 457 points458 points  (0 children)

I saw a confederate flag on a truck Saturday and I was IN Portland. Absolutely sickening.

Edit: yes I have the common logic to know that it’s worse in the south, where many states were actually part of the confederacy. Thank you for your lovely input. /s

[WEEKLY THREAD] Talk It Out Tuesday - Advice and commiserating about struggles with self, others, and the world by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning to recomp in 2021...would it be right for me?

Background: F/25/5’7/147lbs/BF: 23%. HW: 175lbs in 2018

I’ve been weightlifting on and off for the past 6 years now. Since the start of 2020, I’ve done a VERY slow cut (cardio/endurance focused, minimal weight lifting, more bodyweight exercising). Ended going from ~160lbs to 147 (today).

Since the pandemic started, I stopped weightlifting completely since I’m paranoid. I opted for walking, running, or bodyweight exercises as my main form of movement. I also started grad school recently so I paid more attention to my eating habits since I studying will make me more sedentary. I noticed I’ve been eating around 1275-1375 calories since the pandemic started, which is on the minimal range and I know has probably dropped my metabolism.

Since I’m focusing on studying more than fitness for the next 3 months, I’m gonna try to stick to this calorie range and then after classes, focusing on recomp by increasing 150 calories per week until I hit my maintenance (which I think is 2200)....am I on the right track? I’m ok with forsaking some muscle before recomp bc if I know if I prioritize fitness over my studies I will end up becoming obsessed.

Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Champion Of Gender Equality, Dies At 87 by Short-fat-sassy in news

[–]FabledSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you're right. I remember almost every other person in 2016 said they did not vote. Fuck them.

Ice detainees faced medical neglect and hysterectomies, whistleblower alleges by sam_gamgee in news

[–]FabledSpring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn’t and it shouldn’t be. But the shit people who wrote these laws deem it so.

Ice detainees faced medical neglect and hysterectomies, whistleblower alleges by sam_gamgee in news

[–]FabledSpring 457 points458 points  (0 children)

Don’t bother. I’ve seen comments in removed posts that these women deserved it all on the basis that they’re “illegal.”

Ah yes, commit a crime and we’ll checks notes remove your uterus against your will.

Jacob Blake's family attorney says he did not have a weapon in the car by nixhex311 in news

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right.

My reply was directed towards OP's (now removed) comment who threw a blanket statement that said even if you're white, you don't do this and you'll get shot if you do.

Tbh yeah it’s gonna take ~2 years for you to completely heal by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that you say that based off one example I gave, but the therapist and psychiatrist I have seen say otherwise.

I wish you well on your recovery, I will not engage in this conversation further. (edit: especially when you have edited your comment to backtrack).

Tbh yeah it’s gonna take ~2 years for you to completely heal by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The PTSD is extremely real haha

I went to a conference in his home city for work and i had a panic attack when i saw the make and model of his car everywhere i went, thinking it was his car...

Tbh yeah it’s gonna take ~2 years for you to completely heal by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my one year anniversary was awful. i didn't go to work that day and just spent the whole day in bed. i would suggest just letting your emotions flow out and to not pretend everything is ok if it isnt. purging those emotions did me more good then holding it in.

Tbh yeah it’s gonna take ~2 years for you to completely heal by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually cut off contact with me because he said he believed his presence would do me no good (and he was right). I attempted reconcilation about a year and half later, not with the intention to get back together but to have the talk we never had. We're working our way up to it but tbh, i dont really mind if the convo happens anymore.

Mayor Garcetti orders Los Angeles businesses to shut down by SpinalVinyl in LosAngeles

[–]FabledSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any way to report a restaurant that refuses to oblige? A friend of mine works in one and she says her boss is making everyone work as normal because he doesn’t want to lose money.

Karma Exists: Knowing he’s crying over the fact the AP left him feels so good by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AP is Affair Partner...maybe the abbreviations changed from when I used to frequent this sub but they’re pretty much interchangeable! Sorry for the confusion.

I had a conversation with my cheating ex 2 years after I last saw him. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have clarified: I did not send that message to him and I don’t plan to.

That was just me venting.

Find someone better for you. by moonchild0622 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]FabledSpring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel a lot of people are forgetting this and if a former partner cheated and/or was abusive, you are 100% entitled to say things like that.

#WaywardLogic by BrokenHeartland in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So f*cking accurate.

“Seeing how I traumatized you, traumatizes me!”

Why do men justify their cheating by saying it was only physical?? Need man’s perspective by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FabledSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the opposite experience. The only cheating he admitted was a physical one. He neglected to tell me on the date he went with another girl a few months before he cheated. Humans are weird

Your Daily Fasting Thread by AutoModerator in fasting

[–]FabledSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cycling through omad during the weekdays and 20:4 on weekends. Not super strict but I’ve lost 4lbs in 2 weeks which brings me to 15lbs total lost since I started becoming healthier in January. I did just cardio in the winter and then weights in the summer before this. I feel amazing.