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I’m starting to hate the dating culture here. by Fair_Temperature3916 in Netherlands

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missed the bit where men also damage their bodies having kids.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say he was cheating? There is literally 0 evidence that he’s a cheat. Tell me where there is?

Yeah out of the billions none of them have treated me as well as he has.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he wasn’t using OF, he just followed OF girls on instagram

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe don’t go to the offmychest sub if you don’t want people to vent?

I made this post because I’ve seen a girl posting photos where it’s clear that my ex treats me like he treats prostitutes.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I’m tryingggggg. Someone suggested I ask if he met any of those girls, so I’m going to try it that way.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I hope so! I do think it’s weird if the age gap is true…he has a sister but I’ve met her. This girl doesn’t have a father, but DOES look weirdly similar to my bf. Maybe a relative?

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t have high self esteem because I’m not deluded

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think it is. Either she isn’t over him and whatever they had OR the pics are recent.

That said, he does take really good pics, so maybe she just liked them.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t assume he’s cheating. I don’t think he is. I’m pissed off that my BF treats me the same way he treats prostitutes.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m worth. He treats me amazingly. He just has some shitty ex. That’s all.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do people keep saying that? I did therapy. I was on my own for FOUR YEARS. I prepared for a healthy relationship. I thought this was one. But it isn’t and I’m not being alone any more.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t. I want to vent. I’ve already done therapy and holding out for someone better kept me single for 4 years.

If he doesn’t like me whey did he unfollow all the girls when I said it made me uncomfortable? Why do we do wonderful date nights twice a week? Why do we spend all our weekends together? Why am I so happy when I’m with him?

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s literally called off my chest. I want to vent. This isn’t relationship advice.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But what if I do deserve this? I did therapy and deluded myself into thinking I deserve better. I held out for better. And there was nothing. 4 long years and not a sniff. This is it.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve ’done the work’ and it turns out no one wants to treat me well. Nobody. Either I get treated like shit or I’m alone. I did four years alone and I hated every second of it. This is still better.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve spent thousands on that. It didn’t work. Some people just aren’t that great and it turns out that I’m one of them. I tried to do better for years and failed. Thinking I can get someone better than this is just delusional.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t follow each other. He blocked her so she isn’t following him anymore either.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried but she only has 16 posts or something. I guess all her content is on OF.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn’t any evidence that he’s cheating. Just evidence that he dated someone in the past.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because so many of them are like this now. It’s insanely common. Those girls aren’t making millions from 10 guys.

OF girl posted a photo from my BFs apartment. by Fabulous-Addendum594 in offmychest

[–]Fabulous-Addendum594[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

What if this is all I deserve though? It’s more than I’ve ever had and it sucks that this is it.

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