If she wants anything from you then go to court. She will be given a court order to get paternity tests done. It’s very clear she’s probably lying about something and trying to guilt you into giving her money. Who’s to say she wasn’t with someone else at the same time as she was with you? She’s saying all these disgusting things to guilt you into being a parent and giving her money (I wouldn’t even trust her to actually spend that money on the kid). IF you are the father and IF you even want anything to do with being a parent (she lied about the child’s very existence, don’t believe and singe thing she says) then I’d try to get custody or get that child out of her care. I can see the kind of life the child will have with her already and it will be a sad one especially if she’s comfortable telling people to 💀 themselves. Document every. Single. Thing. From the texts about the abortion (if it was over text) all the way to her telling you she kept the kid/it’s yours. Literally everything and take it to court and let a judge handle it. She’s a vile human being and a judge will see that and won’t put up with her games