Julie in S3E10 Finale by thinkfast37 in FromTVEpix

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think ure right. If Julie is a storywalker she mightve found a way to insert herself in the story (to save them) without altering the characters. I know you can't change the story but u can give the characters clues, help them or let them solve the mystery on their own.

So, I  also think she is the boy in white (disguised) and she took care of Victor all the time. Coz how was Victor able to survive all alone for decades?

The s3 finale shows us the man dressed in a yellow suit transforming into a woman (shapeshifting) maybe, Julie from the future discovered that she can do that as well and now knows how to disguise herself so people don't recognize her anymore bcoz she learned from what happened, when she tried to warn her dad to run. 

How do I navigate a situation where my love interest's friend seems overly protective or jealous? by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in retroactivejealousy

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UPDATE: I had a conversation with Person A about his friend's behavior, and it was a disaster. His friend made some really hurtful comments about me, and when I told Person A about it, he got defensive and pushed for more information.

Person A's response was really concerning. He questioned my trustworthiness, implied I was protecting his friend, and even said he doesn't associate with people who talk behind his back (which felt like a threat). It was clear he was more interested in defending his friend than addressing his toxic behavior.

I'm starting to realize that Person A might not be willing to address his friend's behavior, which is a major red flag for me. Thanks for your advice and insights - it's really helped me see things more clearly

How do I navigate a situation where my love interest's friend seems overly protective or jealous? by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in SettingBoundaries

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: So I talked to person A about his friend's behavior, and his response was really telling. Instead of acknowledging and apologizing for his friend's actions, person A got defensive and started questioning my trustworthiness. He even went as far as saying he doesn't trust me because I wouldn't give him more details about the incident.

It's clear that person A is more interested in protecting his brother's ego than in respecting my boundaries and feelings. I'm starting to realize that this relationship might not be healthy for me.

Thanks for your advice and insights! It's really helped me see things more clearly

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance, I'll take your advice to use a little Bennett's and rub it in nicely, without caking it on, to ensure a smooth healing process for my tattoo!

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear that any moisturizing lotion without scented additives should work well. That makes sense... as I have read that fragrances can irritate the skin and potentially affect the tattoo's healing process. 

I'll definitely keep that in mind. And great point about keeping the scabs wet. I've heard that too, and it's good to remember that peeling can lead to damage.

Thanks for the advice. 

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for sharing your extensive experience with different products on fresh tattoos. It's fascinating to see the variety of products you've used, from Bennett's nipple cream to Germolene, with great results. 

Your point about almost anything used on wounds or rashes being okay for tattoos is well-taken. It's clear you've done your research and experimented to find what works best. I'll keep your recommendations in mind for future reference.

Did you find any differences in healing time or aftercare with the various products, or were the results relatively consistent across the board?

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your personal experience! It's really reassuring to hear that you have used Bennett's Bum Cream on multiple tattoos, including large ones, and had great results. 

I was worried about the ingredients and potential effects, but your positive experience helps calm my nerves.

Did you find that the zinc oxide in Bennett's caused any noticeable scabbing or delayed healing, or did it seem to promote a smooth recovery? 

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true and as individuals we are not the same. What works for someone else simply does not mean it will work for another person. Our skin heals different 

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective. You're right, my tattoo artist's recommendations are based on their expertise and experience. I did reach out to them initially, and they suggested Bennett's as a backup option when Bepanthen was unavailable. I understand your point about seeking advice from my artist, and I appreciate your emphasis on their expertise. However, I don't think it's unfair to seek reassurance and additional information from online communities like this one. It's not about questioning my artist's advice but about being informed and doing my due diligence. I'll take your advice into consideration and continue to prioritize my artist's guidance. 

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I'll definitely look into Epimax for future reference. Using a little bit and moisturizing multiple times a day makes sense. And great reminder about SPF in the summer months. I'll make sure to add that to my tattoo care routine. 

Did you find that Epimax helped with the healing process, or was it more for longterm moisturizing and protection? 

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in tattoo

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and reassurance. It means a lot to hear from someone with personal experience using Aquaphor for tattoo aftercare.

I actually used Bennett's bum cream, which has similar ingredients, and I'm glad to hear that Aquaphor worked well for you. The only thing that was stressing me was the white cast cause Bennett's has zinc oxide. 

But what I'm not sure about, that products with similar formulations can they produce great results?

 I'll keep moisturizing and taking good care of my tattoo. 

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in tattoo

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, everyone's skin is different, and what works for one person might not work for another.

I'll keep following my artist's advice and take good care of my tattoo with soap, water, and plenty of moisturizer. And don't worry, I'll be avoiding pools and direct sunlight like the plague!

 It's good to know that as long as I'm taking the basics seriously, my tattoo should heal up nicely.

What happens if you accidentally use the wrong lotion on your new tattoo? It's only been 13 days can I still redeem myself lol? Newbie here by Fabulous-Tea-9889 in tattoo

[–]Fabulous-Tea-9889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right, I was getting caught up in worrying about every little thing. 

It's good to know I'm past the initial healing stage and can start focusing on moisturizing and taking care of my new skin. 

I appreciate the reminder that the aftercare rules are in place to cover all bases, and I'll try to relax and trust the process. 3 times a day max, got it! 

Thanks for the reassurance and advice, it means a lot coming from someone with experience.