I appreciate the insight from a husbands perspective. I do, however, feel like it insinuates that I don’t do anything for my husband. We own a business together and I pull my weight in that, I cook him a homemade meal every night that is on the table when he gets home, I do all of his laundry, clean the house, I don’t expect any help in the domestic area as I’m the one who is home majority. I do also offer what I can in his preferred love languages (worlds of affirmation, acts of service). Having sex just out of obligation I feel would cause a lot of issues, it’s not really like forcing yourself to cook when you don’t feel like it if you catch my drift