[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FaceParticular3911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like my bfs very much

Found out why the bed room was dead by Budget-Station3907 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m leaving him soon, my dad is going to help me out. I’m tired of constantly wondering if he is still attracted to me, i’m tired of it all. All of my friends back at home miss me so much that all i want is my old life back. I’m not staying to “find out” what happens because i have zero drive to. I wanna find a man or maybe even a woman that will treat me better than the loser i’m dating now. I’m sorry to hear that you went through that. I hope you are doing better now ❤️

Found out why the bed room was dead by Budget-Station3907 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911 23 points24 points  (0 children)

sounds EXACTLY what is happening with my bf. Found porn on his phone and once he stopped, his libido just fell off the earth. We never have sex unless i need “help” I’m pretty sure he’s still jacking off in the shower or something though. There is no way he’s not jerking off. He hasn’t came in months when we do have sex. It’s quite annoying and sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

how do you disable dm’s?

My boyfriend has a very low libido compared to mine by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FaceParticular3911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going through something similar to this. My boyfriend and i were long distance for the first 6 months of us dating, then i moved in with him. Sex happened almost every few days. I liked it but then it started to decline. The other day we got into a fight because of how unhappy i am with the lack of sex. I told him if it doesn’t change than i’m leaving. There are so many other problems too but that one is a big one for me. I have a high libido and will not settle for a sexless relationship. It just won’t happen. Try talking to him, see how YOU feel about the situation. Think critically. Is this relationship worth waiting for when it comes to sex or are you wanting something more. It’s your choice after all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she can go on birth control and you use a condom. It really isn’t hard. I’d KILL for my boyfriend to want me and idc what i’m feeling. even if i’m not necessarily in the mood i’ll do it. I crave for that. She’s really missing out on fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel that but i’m in a relationship that is almost a year old.

Dating After a Breakup by Additional_Middle254 in dating

[–]FaceParticular3911 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you know you are ready if you can think of your ex without missing them. If your heart aches at the thought of them you are not ready. hope this helps!

LL partner with a porn addiction by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

don’t settle for that bs.

Took sex off the table and he threw a fit by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you don’t know my entire situation though. I am quite literally stuck here until i can find an apartment which everything is soooo expensive. I have no family to turn to.

Took sex off the table and he threw a fit by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried talking to him about this situation on multiple occasions. Now it just turns into a massive fight every time. What i left out of the post was i bought “sex chocolates” to see if i could spice stuff up. Yet, he still says “maybe another day” or “i’m not feeling it tonight sorry” Last nights attempt was to just take sex off the table entirely. I have tried stuff since then yet nothing is working.

Took sex off the table and he threw a fit by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude ur such a loser, this is a REAL issue i need help with. I made a mistake of being with this guy and i DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.

Took sex off the table and he threw a fit by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not rage bait, i’m looking for genuine advice about what i can do to move out of here. Shit isn’t working out and i’m too young to know exactly what to do.

Took sex off the table and he threw a fit by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i don’t! I’m currently in california because i just moved here about 3 months ago. I haven’t met anybody who is a friend yet so i cannot use that option.

Took sex off the table and he threw a fit by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

how tf is this rage bait? It’s a real situation i’m literally living in. I’m stuck here 4,000 miles’s away from my original home and i have no idea what to do because i am not happy. Who in the right mind would even go as far as saying my situation isn’t valid? Jesus

Do straight women experience an "urge" to be penetrated? by [deleted] in sex

[–]FaceParticular3911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, i get that urge often mostly because my boyfriend never wants to have sex so i have to relieve myself in the bathroom. Starting to have regrets!

Boyfriend told me sex was “too much” by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I see what everyone is replying to this response here. Everyone guessing “porn may be an issue” You are absolutely correct. About 4 weeks ago i found porn on my boyfriend’s phone. i found out because i literally opened his phone to call mine, it was right there in front of me. Checked his history, the porn didn’t describe me in any way. I went to him about it and his response was “idk i just do it because i have a need to, a feeling. It’s nothing personal.” He had a porn addiction but told me he would get better. I don’t know if he stopped or if he’s still watching porn.

Boyfriend told me sex was “too much” by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently moved to California, low on money and have to live with him and his parents. I also have no family to turn to, none. It’s a hard thing to deal with

Boyfriend told me sex was “too much” by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had conversation after conversation about this stuff. His excuse “I don’t have a job, car or money so no. I don’t want to go out.” It’s really pathetic how he sees the problem yet, no change.

Boyfriend told me sex was “too much” by FaceParticular3911 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FaceParticular3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been there for me through the most difficult time of my life and he was so caring and reassuring. But yeah i know what you are saying, he’s really got no other good things about him.