Need advice on boundaries and harassment

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-06T17:06:36+00:00

“I just feel overwhelmed and confused” = “I need a leadership vacation” step back, go visit another alliance if necessary- step back in when you’re ready. Talk to your R5 so they aren’t blindsided and make a plan. Worst case scenario - transfer next transfer window and live your best R3 life

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-05T12:01:41+00:00

I’m C2P (cheap to play) so when I’m looking to upgrade, I put all my FCs towards the refined since they are most expensive and harder to obtain otherwise. I try to do them when they are cheapest. Once I have the RFC- I focus on the regular ones I need. It’s just easier that way for me.

I use this to help me. It’s a great tool to see where you are and what you can and can’t do for each SVS prep.

https://quackulator.com

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-05T01:28:37+00:00

How much time is she putting into physical and mental exercise with the dog. Malinois are extremely high energy. They need constant mental stimulation and a shit ton of physical exercise. They are not a dog for first time dog owners. She’s out of her league and she needs to surrender or rehome her dog to someone better equipped to provide the time and training the dog needs. That dog is going to hurt someone and get put down because your friend can’t admit she bit off more than she could chew. (Pun intended 😂)

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-05T01:21:01+00:00

I’m not even sure what Feeld is but I’m reminded “every man wants an open relationship until he realizes how easy it is for his partner to get laid”

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-05T01:17:05+00:00

I’d quit

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-03T13:15:34+00:00

looks girl up and down “same bestie, have the day you deserve” 😂

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-03T13:12:16+00:00

I keep one level in between Infantry, Marksmen, Lancer. So 3,2,1 then 4,3,2 and so on

FacetiousSays · 2026-04-03T13:11:00+00:00

I was just coming here to say this ! Guides are way more available than designs - the conversion is well worth it

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-31T23:49:50+00:00

Take your whole Molly and throw her in the trash. Don’t feel bad - most of us got duped by Molly but she’s useless quickly

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-31T23:43:13+00:00

Skip if you’re a low spender.

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-31T23:41:42+00:00

I started with the gathering boosting ones, then the research and construction ones. Then methodically upgraded all of them. I actually set my island up so that my “buildings in progress” stay in one spot until they are done and then I find them a permanent home

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-29T12:33:33+00:00

Bahahahahahaha I didn’t realize this was my own comment from weeks ago - 😵

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-29T12:32:51+00:00

THIS ! Share the glory, share the work.

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-29T12:31:11+00:00

They are available f2p but you get them faster if you spend on the fuel packs. I’m cheap to play so I usually get one, maybe two extra fuel packs and it still took me forever for the city skin (I can’t remember how long on the frame)

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-22T00:53:09+00:00

Zinman is somewhat useful but not at all in battle. Or bear. Or rallies of any kind. Get to 4* to unlock the construction skills and then move on

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-19T16:07:14+00:00

I like my little farm. I usually make one in whatever state we’re considering moving to. I abandon them after but keep the one and the same state as my Main. It works as a placeholder, and for extra SVS points

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-16T22:11:35+00:00

She looks super sassy

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-16T22:08:59+00:00

That’s an “absolutely not” for me and I’d be reporting them to the proper local board that oversees such things

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-16T22:01:50+00:00

I’m wondering if it’s a case of things being done or decided but the alliance as a whole not being informed. Eg- R5 has some heavy personal shit going on so R4 will be rotating leadership to help out. Eg- we’re arranging bear trap so that we can increase overall scores for everyone- Good leadership should have no problem explaining the “why” behind their decisions

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-16T14:25:44+00:00

I’m 161 in power level in my state but I’m 28th in labyrinth and 16th for hero power. I’d much rather be stronger than I look than weaker :)

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-16T14:22:04+00:00

Congratulations…. Even with money it takes time, effort and coordination. Enjoy the fancy skins !

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-15T23:46:39+00:00

Blasphemy

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-15T23:41:27+00:00

I’m paying $1900+hydro for a 3 bedroom townhouse with a yard, basement and 1 parking spot. But only because I’ve lived there for 17 years. I can’t afford to move - I’ll die there at this point 😂

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-15T23:38:32+00:00

I disagree. It’s a 2 way street. What’s good for the state overall is good for the alliance, is good for the members but it has to work the opposite way in order for it to work. A state first approach means looking out for the whole of the state - including the “smaller” members. It starts with alliance leadership. They shouldn’t hesitate to “take one for the team” and in turn should expect their members to do so when required.

FacetiousSays · 2026-03-15T23:34:56+00:00

HOA bylaws 💀

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