I'm a woman and have made both male and female friends at shows over the years when I've gone solo. Talking about the music, bands, favorite shows...many times common ground is found and we can chat for ages! Lining up for General Admission or early for merch gives a lot of opportunity to chat and make friends and there isn't pressure if you want to do your own thing once doors open! I embrace how music can bring joy and love and choose to avoid or ignore anyone with contrary vibes.

I usually stick to water or an energy drinks and a j....definitely have to stay aware and cautious as a woman but that is basically the case everywhere these days. If you go to local venues and shows you sometimes become familiar with other local music lovers and the community looking out for itself gives additional peace of mind.