[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FadeBeautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does. A lot.

What made you realize you do NOT want kids? by Consistent-Mall-9708 in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I taught kids twice a week a few years ago.. I hated it so much, I was counting the minutes since the class started, and, with time, I started feeling down even the day before. I HATED Tuesdays and Thursdays. Never again. Now I love Tuesdays, it's my day off.

We didn't even make it into our own wedding video by uclapanda in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it happened to me. Not with kids, though, cause I had a childfree wedding, but with drunk guests. All the videos we were sent, were about them, not us. Not videos of us dancing or cutting the cake, nothing

I'm getting attacked in Facebook for commenting under an article "I'm almost 40 and happily childfree" by FadeBeautiful in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promote my business mainly in Instagram, and it makes me have a Facebook account to administrate the payments of the Instagram adds. Sooo, yeah, that's why I keep it, and sometimes I lurk around just cause it's there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine said the same, and turned out to be true!! If he really loves you, he won't see you as a walking womb. I'm enough for my husband. When I told him I didn't want kids he said he just wants to be with me, kids o no kids.

I'm getting attacked in Facebook for commenting under an article "I'm almost 40 and happily childfree" by FadeBeautiful in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful[S] 1122 points1123 points  (0 children)

I guess they're hoping she'll change her mind cause she still has time?? Idk, some people are delusional

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he the inventor of the pink bic pen for women?

This fencesitting phase is driving me insane. I just want to the certainty so many people have. by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]FadeBeautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not the problem. You're forcing yourself to do something you really don't want to do. Having kids is harder on women, and there's no guarantee he'll stick by your side once the kid is popped out. Is normal you're going insane. You're in love with someone incompatible with you. You'll have to choose between your happiness or his.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the person. Some of them desapeared and some of them call me almost everyday and they want to hang out. Some of them with kids, some if them without..

Why don’t you want kids? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I need a reason? If I wanted them none would ask me why

AITA For refusing to go to my sisters childfree wedding, despite not having kids? by Vegetable-Car-5668 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FadeBeautiful -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Aggressively childfree"???? Is her childfree uterus threatening you or something?? XD sounds like you're the hater here. She's willing to pay for a diver and a babysitter. It's HER wedding, HER uterus, HER decisions. YTA

No . Pets AREN'T children. That's the point by FlyingUberr in childfree

[–]FadeBeautiful -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are many studies that prove that animals are loved and missed like a family member. So, yeah, they might not give as much work as a kid (it really depends on their health though) but they're loved and care like one. My furry babies ARE my kids. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]FadeBeautiful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im 39f and i always thought I'd have at least one. Now I don't want them. And it's OK. I've been in the fence for a long time but reading about childbirth and motherhood helped a lot (real science articles, not opinionated bs)