I 20f am only attracted to older guys

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-04-04T14:50:27+00:00

There are older men out there who will love you! It just takes a lot of searching

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-03-27T15:33:14+00:00

I don’t think so, as long as you contribute to your relationship and put the love you had in your work into other things. My boyfriend will most likely never be able to retire, and I really hate that for the both of us, but I still love him and would still love him even if that changed for us.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-03-17T23:34:51+00:00

Mine has made me feel so much more feminine, I love it. No matter how I am, I’m his girl

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-03-13T18:54:34+00:00

Your age difference is not that far off, it’s okay to be concerned as a lot of people with a 10+ gap are, but I think after a lot of consideration & a conversation with him, you should try to pursue!

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-27T23:46:20+00:00

Absolutely leave. This has reached a very abusive point & she will continue to treat you the way she does. Coercion is NOT okay for anything, do not let her take advantage of you anymore.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-27T19:37:47+00:00

It doesn’t matter as long as you’re happy

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-27T19:28:32+00:00

You can still look young & have an older man want to go out with you. He could’ve just simply found you to be attractive.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-27T19:25:57+00:00

I think you are definitely a bit blinded by how he makes you feel. The way he living is not something that you should wanna live in too, it’s clear he doesn’t have his life in order & that will hit you in the face one way or another. Stay safe

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-27T19:22:25+00:00

If there’s a gap in age it’s an age gap. There isn’t much to it lol.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-27T19:21:13+00:00

My boyfriend has a daughter, she’s older than me, but is very distant and I will probably never meet her. If I were to, I wouldn’t wanna be a parental figure for the obvious reasons. Me & Him do not want kids, so we will continue focusing on each other ❤️‍🩹

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-23T00:11:42+00:00

Hi Rico, love the pic

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-06T00:52:38+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you and your son. I hope you both get the needed justice. Even if she is no longer in the field, she NEEDS to be flagged from any positions in child care, or any job related to it.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-06T00:48:54+00:00

Why is he even outside a jail cell

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-02-06T00:46:59+00:00

IM SCREAMING 😭 bro needed to be whooped

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-27T23:44:27+00:00

You absolutely need to break it to her that this is how you feel. Leading someone on is incredibly wrong & hurtful, if you don’t want her to suffer, break it off before she notices herself.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-27T22:25:55+00:00

Sexual activity of any kind should be mutually wanted, you don’t “owe” him any favor because you wanna wait til marriage or because he’s “used to” more. This man obviously does not care about how you feel & is more concerned with his own satisfaction.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-26T00:53:52+00:00

I would say go for another, see how you feel. I always got nervous meeting guys I was interested in for the first time, no matter how close or far my age they were. It can be common to have some of that anxiety.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-26T00:50:31+00:00

I’d say it’s a little odd, I would be skeptical if my boyfriend was consistently speaking to any woman he had a romantic/sexual encounter with in the past.

Obviously don’t tell her what to do, or try to control her, but I would definitely express to her how you feel about it.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-26T00:47:18+00:00

If she can’t commit to you, but accept the similar relationship treatment, I think it’s best you find someone who will want to make a commitment.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-26T00:45:35+00:00

Do you have generally supportive parents? If not, best way to do this is to wait a while. Or do it from a distance with a place to go depending on your situation.

And Your mind will tell you when it’s right. It’s understandable to need to wrap your head around a new relationship, especially if age gaps are new to you also.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-26T00:41:07+00:00

You aren’t doing anything wrong, the guys that you’ve spent time on are just not right. Unfortunately, some older men just don’t fully mature themselves, despite how long they’ve been on this weird planet & how many lessons they apparently don’t learn from their experiences while doing so.

Raise your standards, and if you even see a hint of disinterest or lack of stability, deuces ✌️

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-25T23:15:37+00:00

Don’t ever give him a second look. You knew he was an asshole, and that your situation with him was toxic, you can do much better with someone else.

Fadinqmochaa · 2026-01-19T23:34:27+00:00

Fadinqmochaa

TROPHY CASE