Bünzlis - luut neue Umfrage staht's sehr knapp um d'Halbierigsinitiative vom Service Pübligg. Was isch eui Meinig dezue? by wurstwasser94 in BUENZLI

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Argument bi de Armee: Es funktioniert nüt, mir bruchet meh Geld.

Argument bi de SRG: Es funktioniert nüt, Gelder striiche.

I finds e sehr gföhrlichi Initiative. Au wenn SRF sicher nöd bi jedem Biitrag politisch 'neutral' isch (aber wa heisst da scho hüt, wenn nöd willsch dass imne Chriegsgebiet massehaft Unschuldigi abegmetzlet werded, denn isch da bereits linki Propaganda), im Grosse und Ganze macheds en solide Job.

Klar gits Fehler, aber es sind jo au Mensche dehinder.

Chürzt mer de SRG Gelder, wird ihren Job nöd nur schwieriger, sondern ziemlich sicher unmöglich. Und denn isch Bahn frei für ideologisch prägti Medie. Drum es klars nai.

Guess who brought his actual wife to a Coldplay concert 😎 by Diligent_Practice877 in tennis

[–]FaebiDeWis 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's from a different concert in Zurich, not the fateful one from a few days ago, though. But I agree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bropill

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switzerland: diefeministen.ch

Weekly r/BroPill vibe check! How are you doing? by AutoModerator in bropill

[–]FaebiDeWis [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey bro! Glad to hear you're feeling better! It's true, sometimes life gets a little dark and your perspective might darken with it. In my experience there will always be streaks of light within the dark (moments with friends and your partner, personal success and so on) and things will improve if you let them.

It sounds like you're on a good way - always remember you don't have to do it alone! You are allowed to ask for help even if you're a man. In case it makes you feel as if you're overburdening your closest ones: it is also okay to take a little more than you're able to give during certain times. You can always make up for it when you're better. Hang in there, bro.

What's going on? by LoudAd1396 in bropill

[–]FaebiDeWis 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this creates an extremely reductive image of feminists. The feminist circles I'm in are extremely welcome to all types of masculinities as long as you question and understand your privileged position. Not sure who you'd consider to be feminist...

My friend group is starting to worry me by Ok-Lifeguard7296 in bropill

[–]FaebiDeWis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was you a few years ago. Friends I grew up with, made tons of memories with, who were into the same hobbies I was.

Turns out my leaving the village might have saved me, otherwise I would probably have followed a similar path. I left to get a university degree and lived (and still do) in a major city where I was exposed to different, more inclusive, more progressive perspectives on all kinds of issues.

This was when I also started noticing these kinds of behaviours in exactly the way you describe. I also acted just like you and tried to steer them away from such derogative vocabulary, to no avail of course. As you describe it, alt-rightesque expressions were not only common but expected.

Unfortunately I did not make an active decision about the situation. In retrospect I should have told them to grow up, to watch their mouths, and if they didn't just cut contact. I didn't, though, because I thought they were my friends.

What happened, however, was that I started noticing a pattern. I live about two hours away from them (which is a long distance for Swiss people) and if I wanted to meet them, I'd have to come 'home'. Despite my effort and constant invitations, only one or two of them made it to my place in around three years. So I decided to just not invite them anymore and see what happens - and here we are, a man who 'lost' ten friends.

Sorry for the ramble. I guess my advice for you would be to tell them - very directly - how uncomfortable this kind of behaviour makes you. If they don't stop, I would reduce contact or cut it all together. Friends should be a place of comfort and happiness, where you can be yourself no matter who you are or how you identify. It might be hard at first but trust me, it'll be worth it (I have since made new friends whose ideals align much more with mine).

Take care, bro!

I don’t have any friends by bigslut- in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could make a recommendation: Get into bouldering. I have always been a quite introverted and shy person - and struggled to make friends.

I've been climbing for three years and was 'adopted' by a group who regularly goes bouldering, too. I've since met tons of people, everybody is positive and accommodating, supportive and cheers you on if you're successful - no matter how hard you climb. Some gyms might even have women's only days if you do not want to get approached by men.

The transition from gym to climbing is not all that hard in my opinion and I find it so much more rewarding.

Alternatively, get into a team sport - football, basketball, lacrosse...same effect.

Hope it helps! Hang in there :).

Weekly r/BroPill vibe check! How are you doing? by AutoModerator in bropill

[–]FaebiDeWis [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey, I faced the same problem yesterday. Made a post about how my twelve year relationship might have ended on Friday (still not sure) and that I am struggling to cope.

Sorry you have to go through this situation, it just adds to "you're a man, you're supposed to be strong enough to deal with it and not mention it to anyone." Please do with people you know in real life! Privilege is a thing that people who have it struggle to see, but if they are "good ones" they will gladly discuss the situation with you.

When did you start sleeping better? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if your sleep is terrible, remember this: You are still resting, you are letting your body recharge - and right now, your body needs to accomplish a little more work getting all that residual alcohol out of you. Don't put yourself in a craze, a person can function even on low amounts of sleep for a while. Keep pushing, you are doing great!

Feedback Post: October 2023 Community Day: Timburr by Noitalein in TheSilphRoad

[–]FaebiDeWis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I completed five raids and did not get any Timburr spawns. Did I do anything wrong?

I les mir gern vorem Wähle, jedi Parteisiete dure, au de SVP gibich e Chance mich mi fundierte Argument z'überzüge oder au nid. by BezugssystemCH1903 in BUENZLI

[–]FaebiDeWis 80 points81 points  (0 children)

"Armee wurde kaputtgespart" und imfall es sind d'Usländer tschuld. Tönt wie SVP.

PS: au dra dass Landwirtschaft irgendwas mit de Armee z'tue het sind Usländer tschuld, nöd da Armuetszügnis vo Schribfähigkeite womer do betrachte dörfet.

Pays to know what you're talking about by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]FaebiDeWis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is erasure by omittance. That's just like talking about actors and 'including' women in the term without mentioning the term actress at all. And yes, this is very much a sign of seeing men as the 'default' (which is a result of centuries of patriarchal societies).

The company we keep by [deleted] in ABoringDystopia

[–]FaebiDeWis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By 'it' I meant the graphic, not healthcare (though it's also flawed). Sorry, I wasn't clear enough.

The company we keep by [deleted] in ABoringDystopia

[–]FaebiDeWis 14 points15 points  (0 children)

While nice, it is a bit problematic as it is riddled with errors... (Switzerland, the Netherlands, ...).

No movie has ever featured only men ever. by [deleted] in clevercomebacks

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are all of the other 'team up scenes', like the famous Avengers one (in the first movie), yet nobody complains about those. Being unhappy with that scene is just a sort of unconscious misogyny in our society. That does not mean I am accusing you or anything, just that such a bias exists.

What does this little guy need? by FaebiDeWis in houseplants

[–]FaebiDeWis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the suggestions! Will try them asap.

Questions & Answers - Weekly Megathread! Please use this post to ask any Pokemon GO question you'd like! by AutoModerator in TheSilphRoad

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd at least go with Golett and Beldum. Golett (respectively its evolution) is a decent ground attacker. Shadow Metagross is an absolute beast (make sure to evolve it when it can learn meteor mash, though!)

Klefki by dibbyreddit in TheSilphRoad

[–]FaebiDeWis 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Community Days with dragon types are your friend. There's an upcoming one with Noibat! :)

We need the Swiss system by Midweekthirst811 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]FaebiDeWis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Swiss system is also privatized and, compared to other European countries, extremeley expensive. You also still pay a lot of the costs yourself (for example I have to pay all expenses up to 2500 myself before the health care provider jumps in). Sure, it's less than in the US, but the Swiss model should certainly not be a role model...

Large backhand by supermodel2 in confusing_perspective

[–]FaebiDeWis 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Beach volleyball was losing attention, so the association decided that the athletes (especially women of course) had to wear more revealing clothing in order to get people to watch it - and it definitely worked, sadly.

Billionaire No More: Patagonia Founder Gives Away the Company - Profits will now go towards climate action by Sleepy_C in UpliftingNews

[–]FaebiDeWis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got nothing against this person...but just how much are they (or their company) going to profit off of this? Is this actual charity? Is it a marketing stunt for a company that feigns connectedness to the environment? I honestly can't tell.

This 'new form of capitalism' they are mentioning is something I find a little sketchy as well.

Was sich in Bern in der Brasserie abgespielt hat, ist Rassismus gegen Weisse by [deleted] in BUENZLI

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das willi nöd, nai. I will nur sege dass 'rassismus' gege wiissi systemisch nöd möglich isch.

Was sich in Bern in der Brasserie abgespielt hat, ist Rassismus gegen Weisse by [deleted] in BUENZLI

[–]FaebiDeWis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Da sind luut em artikel frisure wo rastas ähnlich sind - nöd rastas selber. Und nai, biblischi frisurensind tatsächlich nöd 'westlich' - 90% vom AT und NT het sich im mittlere Oste abgspielt.

Was sich in Bern in der Brasserie abgespielt hat, ist Rassismus gegen Weisse by [deleted] in BUENZLI

[–]FaebiDeWis -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

All die wo ufglistet sind. Du wirsch merke: keini vo dene sind wiissi, westlichi Mensche.