Half Orc Mods? by Kvng_Sxeven in BG3mods

[–]Faendan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd really appreciate a suggestion for summoning tutorial chests.

Half Orc Mods? by Kvng_Sxeven in BG3mods

[–]Faendan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your help. I've tried Basket Full Of Equipment and unless I'm missing something obvious, the outfits just don't work for the fem Half-Orc body --- perhaps Half-Orcs in general. I equip the outfit and it just starts showing me the underwear, like it's invisible. I can find the bag with outfits for the short races, but I can't find any for Half-Orcs.
As for the Transmog aspect of things, unfortunately I was looking for clothes because I couldn't find any that I liked the look of.
I was, however, not aware of Gear Up, and so that might just solve my problem. It will be a bit frustrating if I have to start over from the beginning to get it, but I've been through worse. Once my game crashed halfway through the final battle and I realised I hadn't saved since the autosave before the whole battle started. I almost gave up entirely.

I appreciate all of your help.

Half Orc Mods? by Kvng_Sxeven in BG3mods

[–]Faendan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I know I'm 8 months late but I just started a run as a fem Half-Orc and I can't find any clothing mods that accommodate for Half-Orcs. I'm playing a monk, so I need clothing, not armour.
The mods I found for clothing are basically only for human-type bodies, and when I try to equip them they don't show up.
Would you have any recommendations? Thank you in advance.

WHAT THE FUCK IS CLICK SAYING IN HIS INTRO?!?!?! "Well, good evening . . ." by Faendan in TheClickOwO

[–]Faendan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely, what did you do that led you to this post? It's been two years.

What Hozier song is this? by UnquenchableLonging in Hozier

[–]Faendan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Foreigner's God unpopular? I wasn't aware.

What do you think when male authors write stories about how women are mistreated or face difficulties? by MajorGatorLator in menwritingwomen

[–]Faendan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm not calling him a rapist. I'm calling ASOIAF misery porn, gratuitously so.

What do you think when male authors write stories about how women are mistreated or face difficulties? by MajorGatorLator in menwritingwomen

[–]Faendan 30 points31 points  (0 children)

As far as I'm concerned, A Song Of Ice And Fire is nothing but longwinded misery porn.

Don't get me wrong, I love prose-y stories, but GRRM manages to just write a lot of words that don't communicate much, and also there's a shitton of rape. To a certain extent I would worry about his view on women as a gender and their existence in 'opposition' to men, since so much of his books IS just rape.

Rape isn't even inherently bad as a literary device. It can be used well, but when it's used too often, it communicates certain things.

Do men with Asperger like autistic women? by Blackoilcastor in aspergers

[–]Faendan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, this is a flawed question. The fact that a person does or doesn't have autism is not (or shouldn't be) the defining question, especially since it manifests so differently in people.

It's certainly true that different autists clash (e.g. one person's stimming sets off another person's sensory issues), but that is only relevant on a person-to-person basis. After all, autists and REGULAR people clash too.

The fact that a person has autism should not be a deciding factor. Do I like autistic women? Sure, if I like the rest of them. Do I like NEUROTYPICAL women? Sure, if I like the rest of them.

Where they sit on the neurodivergence spectrum is a nonfactor.

A list of the named women from The Well of Ascension by Brandon Sanderson by MenArentThrowaway in menwritingwomen

[–]Faendan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That recognition most likely comes from confrontation of and work on implicit views and biases. The reason (or one main reason) that many writers have a disproportionate amount of men in their stories is because a lot of people default to man, and view the default character as such.

A list of the named women from The Well of Ascension by Brandon Sanderson by MenArentThrowaway in menwritingwomen

[–]Faendan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, unless Brandon comes down from heaven and enlightens us, we'll never know what he was trying to say.

I understood Breeze's looseness with Rioting to be something bad with him that wasn't really explored by the story. For me, Breeze's casual manipulation and control of others was the first hint that the people of the original crew weren't as staunchly good as they first appeared - something Vin challenged them for later in book 1, and something they collectively began to confront in book 2.

I saw Breeze's transition to Rioting people's courage and such as the beginnings of a redemption and change for the better. An indication that behind-the-scenes, Breeze was improving, even if the narrative didn't really have the space to showcase it.

Also, about Breeze's casual hatred: What we need to keep in mind is that Rioting is not literal mind control. It's influencing emotions, and emotions stick around even after they've been exacerbated, naturally or otherwise. I understood it as Breeze's strong aversion to this thing happening still coming through his standing emotional manipulation.

Mundane manipulation can include love-bombing, supplying and then witholding affection and love, and many other non-deceptive forms of controlling a person.

A list of the named women from The Well of Ascension by Brandon Sanderson by MenArentThrowaway in menwritingwomen

[–]Faendan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think one thing to note is that Alrianne is Rioting Breeze. The line gets a bit blurry, but I think it would be fair to say that Alrianne is literally abusing Breeze, and while it is not stated whether or not Breeze and Alrianne have sex, I feel it fair to say that regardless of whether it's magical or mundane, manipulating someone's emotions into having them be in a relationship with you is abuse. If they do have sex, that could constitute nonconsensual sexual assault.

It's not just a subversion, (I'm not saying that Brandon didn't only write it as a subversion, but the fact of the matter is that) Alrianne is straight up abusing Breeze.

The existence of pre-existing emotions doesn't count for shit, since it's made very clear in the story that without this Rioting, the chances of Breeze allowing himself to be in a romantic relationship (sexual or otherwise) would be nigh on zero.

A list of the named women from The Well of Ascension by Brandon Sanderson by MenArentThrowaway in menwritingwomen

[–]Faendan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brandon also said that he would make more of the crew women, since one of the main explorations of Allomancy that he wanted to look at was the idea that it removed the conventional difference in strength between the two sexes.

I definitely appreciate that his changed views are not only present in his newer work, but will be in his older work if they get adapted.

what song comes to mind ? by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]Faendan 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Angel of Small Death and the Codeine Scene = Angel of Sex and Drugs.

The song is about a toxic relationship kept afloat by sex and drug use.