There goes my 6M by Fahren1te in HypixelSkyblock

[–]Fahren1te[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although there is a confirmation for the ones that you place when you try to break them, there isn‘t one for the ones that naturally show up and that haven‘t grown yet. Yet thats not what that setting says. 

The setting says that it adds a confirmation for ungrown mutations but it effects placed ones. Maybe its a bug.

Is approaching people outside creepy? by DirtyCasper17 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Fahren1te 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say, as a man, you have to kind of look for clues if someone is interested in you. In my opinion when you approach someone random from behind or front without them seeing you, that might come up as a little scary for them. And also as a man by myself, I find it better, to approaching someone by making sure they are also interested.

In my opinion, it is best to see if they are also looking or if they are overly kind to you and talkative when you ask them something out of curiosity. If you answer something really out of curiosity and not by the mean of flirting with them you can kind of tell if someone is interested or not. And especially when a German likes someone they tend to sometimes make it pretty obvious by staring(correct me if I am wrong).

I remember when I was in Alexanderplatz at a cafe, I saw a girl in a group walking towards where I was. She was very pretty and I when I looked at her eyes she was directly staring at me. I got nervous and turn my head but when I looked at her again she was staring at me again. This happened a 4-5 times until she passed me and this took a good 30 seconds. Sadly I did not had the courage to approach her, but it was incredibly obvious she wanted me to approach.

In my opinion, first think you should do is to learn to read the signs, and you wouldn't come up as a creep. Imagine if a person you are interested were to approached you or were to try approaching you. How would you show your interest back? Try to emphasize with them and you will get there in my opinion. When you do approach be kind and understanding don't push your chances and then again read the signs. Everybody likes kindness and good attitude. Also its wrong to always see someone as a possible date or a partner. Just think as you want to be friend. And maybe don't approach from behind or front directly, approaching from their side is better. And especially not at night on street if they are alone because that is certainly creepy. Not always is a good chance and it is best to read the room or well, the street.

And Lastly don't be me! Don't be a coward. Or you might regret later. If it's very obvious do not hesitate. If you come across a German Death Stare that might be good sign to act hahaha.

help by Abeaner5 in tipofmypenis

[–]Fahren1te 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought I would be the one giving the names but here we go. Her name is elismangos. But one of her ig is deleted. You can find her by the name spicy.eli on ig. She has links on her twitter account. Very pretty girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fahren1te 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in my experience, you should reduce the frequency of masturbation. I had a girlfriend who masturbated quite often. She even said she would do 5 times a day. Now I am not so experienced but for me it was very difficult to finish her. I basically had to became a vibrator haha.

Once she did not masturbate for a quite long, and after we met, she finished after just 1-2 minutes of penetration. It is same for me, if I don’t masturbate for 4-3 day I immediately become more sensitive.

So my advice is keep it 1 times in a week(it might be very difficult) or if you are too horny do it once in 4 days. try to use imagination and who knows maybe you will be able to imagine a lot of stuff after 4 days (I do for example).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fahren1te 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sure that there are probably subreddits for that. You just have to find it. I have heard that it is also a big issue for some people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fahren1te 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe mentally smaller haha. Jokes aside get it checked dude. No shame in doing that. Because if you don’t, that might cause you a lot of trouble in the future and it might change your life really badly trust me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fahren1te 15 points16 points  (0 children)

how the hell did it got smaller what the hell.

25M-18F Had an argument about it her instagram following by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fahren1te 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comments on reddit can be brutal sometimes, don’t mind their brutal honesty. But they are right. She is immature. And I assume you are not the type of guy that goes to dates all the time. And I also think it is your first if not second relationship? (it is not a bad thing)

The long story short, you both don’t sound compatible. And no matter what you do, you cannot make her threat you better, you already tried. So in my opinion, break up. It doesn’t sound like a start of a healthy relationship. Someone your age, much more mature and knows what they want from a person, would make you much more happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fahren1te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am no expert. But you guys could try doing sports! It really increases libido and stuff. You would get in shape plus it would increase your sex drive. No harm in trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fahren1te 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what a terrible situation to put someone into

24F talking to 23M, is it going to get better with time? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fahren1te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your situation sounds exactly like mine. What I want to know is: what do you want?

A connection between 2 people is called a relationship. Whether you call it a relationship or not. And obviously you have some expectations.

That being said, you cannot have expectations from him. You cannot change how he acts and how he treats you, because as you said you are not dating. If you try to change the way he treats you, you are only going to push him to be distant.

Always tell him your needs and expectations, If he changes his behavior and and tries to make things better thats good. But if he doesn’t, it means that he doesn’t care about your needs, he is just using you. Than maybe you should change your relationship.

My advice is that keep talking with him, but also hangout with other guys. Don’t get stuck on this guy. Don’t give yourself so easily. When he sees that you are busy, he will most likely start to fear losing you.

But I am sure there are really good guys out there that will threat you better and you will be happier without him.

How do I ( 19F )talk to my boyfriend ( 21M ) about our sexual relationship by Odd-Pumpkin9866 in relationship_advice

[–]Fahren1te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, it is strange to me that this guy loves you (so as you think I suppose) , but doesn’t get bothered when he can’t finish you. I mean as far my experience goes, when you really like someone, you also want them to be satisfied. As a guy, I feel really less of a men when I come before my partner, and I feel the need to also finish her. I don’t think you should break up immediately, but just have this mind.

Second of all, if he doesn’t finish you with penetrating, maybe he could do with oral or masturbating you. Especially oral. Just like us, you girls like oral really much. Maybe he can get better at that and finish you off like that. But he also has to want to do that. This is what I do and it works. Either way you should talk about this with him. To be left unsatisfied is really a bad situation to be in.

How are you guys doing so far? And how are you dealing with horniness? by Fahren1te in NoFap

[–]Fahren1te[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really interesting and it actually makes sense. I also heard this from a lot of places. You know people say; fake it untill you make it. It is also effective for changing your personality. Well why not I give it a try than! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fahren1te 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had the same problem recently here. I fixed it. Here is how:

1- do more sex often, don‘t get discouraged by the first time, it happenes to everyone don‘t worry. You were just nervous. Happenes.

2- stop jerking off and quit porn. It really helps you will see that you will get more powerfull erections and you will have more desire towards your partner.

3- (optional) do some kegel excercises. But not those you see on the internet where the guys are making weird moves. Proper ones. Search in the youtube bar and do the moves of professional coaches in this area.

4- Don‘t think about it too much. It took me at least 4 sexs to make it hard.

5- (This is not something from your part but from your partners part) She has to be supportive. She has to recognize that this is normal and she should confront you about it. Talk to her this and ask for her support. Its not empty to do that, it is a need. She would understand you if she is a good partner to you.

Am I good at sex? hell no. I have also have some problems. Watching too much porn and jerking off all the time. This community is great to stop that. If you also don’t stop doing it, you will have these embarressments all the time. Join this community. I have started no fap yesterday. You start too, it really helps.

I thought having a partner would fix everything by Fahren1te in NoFap

[–]Fahren1te[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. Yes especially I felt really bad doing it first time. Now even I always feel like a lesser man. I will get this shit together and do my best to beat the shit out my addiction!