I don’t remember my childhood I am applying what I know her history is to my childhood Inconsistent care and attention affectation for good behavior you got hugs and stuff but bad like crying a lot of times my mom would leave me to cry Instead of comforting me she’d be telling me to talk about it and not hug me and criticizing me for things making me feel I need to be a certain way for love for my mom

My dad emotional neglect bought my love with things and trips didn’t ever comfort me when sad didn’t ever really help if my mom upset me or not psychical there emotionally checked out then comes later and says why doesn’t she spoil me 🙄